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Old 12-07-2018, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Tinley Park, IL
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This is great.

The reason why I asked why you taking a trip down memory lane is because I wanted to know if you were happy in this season in your life. Are you happy?
As far as my love life goes, no I am not. But I wasn't happy when I was with him either.
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Old 12-07-2018, 12:40 PM
 
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This is great.

The reason why I asked why you taking a trip down memory lane is because I wanted to know if you were happy in this season in your life. Are you happy?
Who? Me or the OP?
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Old 12-07-2018, 12:46 PM
 
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Who? Me or the OP?
I liked your post, but I was asking if the OP was happy.
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Old 12-07-2018, 12:54 PM
 
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I liked your post, but I was asking if the OP was happy.
Oh OK. A good question.
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Old 12-07-2018, 01:02 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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OP, at that age, men do tend to look better; they loose any gangliness they may have had as teenagers, and fill out, becoming more solid & adult-looking in their physique; they may lose a baby face and acquire a more mature facial look, and so on. It's odd that you half-expected him to look worse. That's not how life works at that age, generally.

I can understand your feeling sad, that he looks smiling and confident and happy, if he had some low self-esteem before, though, and was too self-conscious about his braces to smile. It's like you didn't get to enjoy the best side of him, you only had negatives to deal with.
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Old 12-07-2018, 01:12 PM
 
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OP, I think you should continue to look forward and start setting some positive goals for you.
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Tinley Park, IL
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OP, at that age, men do tend to look better; they loose any gangliness they may have had as teenagers, and fill out, becoming more solid & adult-looking in their physique; they may lose a baby face and acquire a more mature facial look, and so on. It's odd that you half-expected him to look worse. That's not how life works at that age, generally.

I can understand your feeling sad, that he looks smiling and confident and happy, if he had some low self-esteem before, though, and was too self-conscious about his braces to smile. It's like you didn't get to enjoy the best side of him, you only had negatives to deal with.
Yes, I always felt that he wasn’t happy with me and now I see what happiness looks like for him. When I looked at our old photos together and compared them to his new ones, I don’t see the same person. Anyways, now I can stop Googling him because there’s nothing more that I need to see.
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Old 12-07-2018, 02:53 PM
 
Location: The ghetto
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I just wonder about people from my past from time to time, not just him. No one else here ever Googles exes??
I think everybody does, though many won't admit it.
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