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Old 12-21-2018, 06:10 PM
 
Location: singapore
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As in the more pple u meet , the more likely u will hit the bull’s eye?
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Old 12-21-2018, 06:16 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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As in the more pple u meet , the more likely u will hit the bull’s eye?
Not necessarily. It’s better to focus on quality not quantity. Be honest with yourself. Who are you really? What do you bring to the table? What kind of man needs you?

Spend time around men who are looking for serious relationships. Don’t just go after every single man you see.
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Old 12-21-2018, 06:23 PM
 
Location: singapore
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What do I bring to the table .. I don’t really understand this question
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Old 12-21-2018, 06:41 PM
 
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What do I bring to the table .. I don’t really understand this question
What makes YOU a good partner?
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Old 12-22-2018, 03:17 AM
 
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What do I bring to the table .. I don’t really understand this question
Usually, the answer is pretty subjective. You could pretty much state the obvious though, "I"m loving, loyal, great sense of humor, fit, healthy, bla blah blah. Not sure how that answer will help

I mean, you wouldn't probably list the crappy attributes that you bring to the table, right?
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Old 12-22-2018, 04:17 AM
 
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if you have that attitude...and a buffet of women..... to date..
you will be too dismissive thinking the grass will be greener on the next one

for me it all comes down to chemistry .. 2 people create their own unique chemistry ….
you also need to give it a chance..
we are complicated creatures...….sometimes we let the clouds of yesterdays storms rain on any new beginning.....and that's sabotage....
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:27 AM
 
Location: singapore
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Usually, the answer is pretty subjective. You could pretty much state the obvious though, "I"m loving, loyal, great sense of humor, fit, healthy, bla blah blah. Not sure how that answer will help

I mean, you wouldn't probably list the crappy attributes that you bring to the table, right?
To me, if a love interest /potential partner asked me the question outright :yeah I bring nothing to the table u can go and suck yourself and marry your own self .. bye ..

I won’t say this to him but good luck to you then narcissist
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:31 AM
 
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To me, if a love interest /potential partner asked me the question outright :yeah I bring nothing to the table u can go and suck yourself and marry your own self .. bye ..

I won’t say this to him but good luck to you then narcissist
Yeah, long time ago, when I was in college. I had a female friend that insulted me when I showed interest in a friend of hers.

I asked her if she could introduce me, then she says, "What do you bring to the table?"

I looked at her like she has 2 heads. I'm like "You her call screener or something? lol"

There's just something pretentious on that phrasing.
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Yeah, long time ago, when I was in college. I had a female friend that insulted me when I showed interest in a friend of hers.

I asked her if she could introduce me, then she says, "What do you bring to the table?"

I looked at her like she has 2 heads. I'm like "You her call screener or something? lol"

There's just something pretentious on that phrasing.
This is why you shouldn’t ask friends to introduce you to their friends if you wanna date them. You have to go and do it yourself. Forget the middleman/middlewoman.
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Old 12-22-2018, 06:37 AM
 
Location: Central New Jersey
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OP needs to ask themselves whats the reason or need to go through so many in their quest for the one? Sometimes the reason and difficulty might be the person lookin back at you in the mirror.
Good luck
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