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Everything you did -- the sexting, the sexual compliments, the making out on the 2nd date -- says you're just looking to get laid. Slow the heck down, Romeo. Next time, spend a little more time just DATING and getting to know each other.
This one is done, of course. She's already told all her friends what a creep you are, so don't bother.
Everything you did -- the sexting, the sexual compliments, the making out on the 2nd date -- says you're just looking to get laid. Slow the heck down, Romeo. Next time, spend a little more time just DATING and getting to know each other.
This one is done, of course. She's already told all her friends what a creep you are, so don't bother.
Thats a little harsh. She was a willing participant in the making out, so thats not the issue. Women send mixed signals to men all the time and expect us to be mind readers. I do think the sexual texting and all that was too much, but its easy to fall into that trap too in this day and age. I think the OP has the advice he needs, which is back off and don't bring it up again, assuming he gets another chance.
Its time to back off and hopefully you learn from this mistake.
When it comes to sex, and all things sexual i have the mind and the mouth of a hormonal teenage boy. I'm pretty upfront about it but i also tell them that i don't sext nor do i send nudes, and i try to avoid sexy talk because i know that once sex is on the table they seem to lose focus, they don't care to get to know me better and any direction i try to take the conversation they always push it back to conversations about sex.
If we are texting and this happens and they don't seem to be getting the hint then they usually wake up to a "i think we're too different" text. That's my nice way of telling them to go away.
Its time to back off and hopefully you learn from this mistake.
When it comes to sex, and all things sexual i have the mind and the mouth of a hormonal teenage boy. I'm pretty upfront about it but i also tell them that i don't sext nor do i send nudes, and i try to avoid sexy talk because i know that once sex is on the table they seem to lose focus, they don't care to get to know me better and any direction i try to take the conversation they always push it back to conversations about sex.
If we are texting and this happens and they don't seem to be getting the hint then they usually wake up to a "i think we're too different" text. That's my nice way of telling them to go away.
Yup. Just too many women undressing you before you get to know them. Poor guy. Good on you for making it clear to them that you are not that sort of guy.
Telling a woman you want to bang her is very different than making love because the emotional commitment boils over.
The former is sex...available just about anywhere.
The latter says something about what is in your heart. And can lead to the greatest sex you will ever have.
Well, not you....but other men who understand how to treat a woman.
THIS!! LMAO!!
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Anyways, look man, women like sex as much as we do. But you need to be smart about it. Don't come out so blunt because obviously they will think that is all you want. If sex is all you want, that's cool, but make sure you do it with a woman who is looking for the same. Never lead anyone into an emotional relationship if you don't mean it. The opposite is also true, if you want a partner for more than just sex, then understand that you can't come off so direct within such a short time.
You didn't say how old you were, but i'm assuming you're young, don't worry, take this as a lesson learn. Experience will teach you how to be better with women.
Yup. Just too many women undressing you before you get to know them. Poor guy. Good on you for making it clear to them that you are not that sort of guy.
There's definitely a time and place for a dirty mind. Just not usually on the second date with someone you barely know.
Right, and it sounds like she would have been more accepting of more flirty banter over the "I want to &*%$ your @^*&$" kind of sexting. Women can be sexually open but still want to be wooed.
I'm in good graces lol. She said that it threw her off a bit and that she gets horrible messages through online dating but likes me and wants to spend more time with me.
I'm in good graces lol. She said that it threw her off a bit and that she gets horrible messages through online dating but likes me and wants to spend more time with me.
She liked that I owned up to it and apologized.
Awesome! Salvaged for now. Now proceed with caution and as a Southern gentleman would.
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Just not usually on the second date with someone you barely know.
