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Old 12-20-2018, 09:58 AM
 
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There's no amount of depression that she may be suffering that justifies throwing knives at you. Period.
Depression is not a justification. It's a chemical imbalance. Knowing if it's depression means it can be treated.
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Old 12-20-2018, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV.
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Of course I want to be better but I really don't know what else I can do, that's why I was hoping someone on here could help me see more alternatives but so far everyone has just been saying to man up, but I don't know what that means in this context.
I would take her to a very public restaurant and tell her it is imperative she gets a 40 hour a week stay at home job. Lands end (magazine) offers it if you have a laptop and headset. Tell her you plan on leaving but implore her to start saving so she will not starve so you two can work out joint custody. Tell her you spoke with a therapist and if she yells or throws things again you have been instructed to call the police (but don't call cops). Can she be mature enough to realize this is bad match and she needs a stay at home job? Or will this make her go nuts? If so, work w what I said and tweak it to fit her.
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Old 12-20-2018, 01:46 PM
 
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I would take her to a very public restaurant and tell her it is imperative she gets a 40 hour a week stay at home job. Lands end (magazine) offers it if you have a laptop and headset. Tell her you plan on leaving but implore her to start saving so she will not starve so you two can work out joint custody. Tell her you spoke with a therapist and if she yells or throws things again you have been instructed to call the police (but don't call cops). Can she be mature enough to realize this is bad match and she needs a stay at home job? Or will this make her go nuts? If so, work w what I said and tweak it to fit her.
Thanks,I feel like this is useful advice.
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Old 12-20-2018, 02:56 PM
 
Location: California
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Why wouldn't she?
Just few days ago you wrote:

"I'am looking for a strong, attractive woman to build an empire with, navigate life and travel the world. It'd be a plus if she was college educated and earned a good income. "...
"I am slim, sexy and have chocolate eyes..."
This add would have a better chance of working had he left off the word "eyes".
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Old 12-20-2018, 04:37 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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But won't they take the kid away?
After reading the OP's subsequent responses I'm not sure that would be a bad thing.
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Old 12-20-2018, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Start taping everything
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Old 12-28-2018, 04:49 PM
 
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after reading the op's subsequent responses i'm not sure that would be a bad thing.
+1.
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Old 12-28-2018, 08:22 PM
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Hopefully CPS will step in and take this little one, who is still very adoptable, from you both, and you both can get a new start on life.

Best wishes.
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Old 12-29-2018, 06:56 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It looks like you are screwed for the next 18 years. It looks like the lady is emotionally unstable and that instability will be absorbed by the child. (but i have to wonder what attracted to you to a lady with those qualities. It takes 2 to tango!)

Remember from 0 to 8 years is pretty much where the foundation of a person's character is created. A child is a sponge from 0 to 8 years.

You need to act quick if your baby momma is as crazy as you stated.
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