Why are there so few female loners who still want romantic relationships? (girl, sex)

[Petunia 100]

Originally Posted by mainebrokerman

because its sooooo much easier for a lady to attract attention or get a date.....all she has to do is smile....and men come running.....

This is true if she is just looking for sex, doesn't care if it is good sex, doesn't care if the man views her as a convenient body instead of a person.

But if she wants real connection, well, that is every bit as elusive for women as it is for men.

[slap to my face]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

It might appeal.

I guess it would make more sense to be where other men understand and can relate. I don't expect to find a fix for my situation because there is none.

[somebodynew]

Originally Posted by Petunia 100

This is true if she is just looking for sex, doesn't care if it is good sex, doesn't care if the man views her as a convenient body instead of a person.

But if she wants real connection, well, that is every bit as elusive for women as it is for men.

Ayuh.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by slap to my face

I guess it would make more sense to be where other men understand and can relate. I don't expect to find a fix for my situation because there is none.

What would you consider a "fix" to your "situation"?

[somebodynew]

Originally Posted by slap to my face

I guess it would make more sense to be where other men understand and can relate. I don't expect to find a fix for my situation because there is none.

It's true. Unless and until you are willing to change YOUR attitudes, there is no fix for your situation.

[slap to my face]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

It's true. Unless and until you are willing to change YOUR attitudes, there is no fix for your situation.

That's your opinion and not a fact.

[somebodynew]

Originally Posted by slap to my face

That's your opinion and not a fact.

I wonder. Is that fun? To repeat that over and over?

[Petunia 100]

Originally Posted by slap to my face

I guess it would make more sense to be where other men understand and can relate. I don't expect to find a fix for my situation because there is none.

Why is that?

[LLCNYC]

Originally Posted by LivingDeadGirl

It was a natural progression, from being classically trained in ballet, middle-eastern bellydancer (taught and performed for 25+ years). I needed to make money and decided to do it, after some friends suggested I'd make a fortune - I am so grateful I took their suggestion seriously. Those 10 yrs as a stripper were the best years of my life.

You were a stripper in your 50s?????

[slap to my face]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

I wonder. Is that fun? To repeat that over and over?

It's fun but also the truth.