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A woman approached my husband on our last vacation, after chatting awhile she flashed her boobs. He was happy that all all the gym time apparently paid off....
I recall a time where there were some things that are parents did or grand parents did, (ie fathers and grand fathers specifically)...would do to approach a woman.
I would say approaching a lady out in public, with no other social ties whatsoever to her, was more common than it is today.
For instance, my dad approached my mom at the beach simply because they were parked next to each other.
How receptive would a woman be today if the same situation were to occur? As a man would you try to strike up a convo with a woman that wound up being near your vicinity at such a place or event? Be it a concert, beach, or public situation?
It's not what, when, and where you say, but how you say it.
If you're a good looking guy who is good at simply talking to people, then no problem.
If you're not all that attractive, stare at her boobs, and keep suggesting going off some out-of-the-way place, you could get a dose of pepper spray.
The problem is that many guys aren't all that perceptive and have the people skill of a radish.
I don't understand... HE didn't do anything, so nothing to be uncool about? If a woman hits on him, it will make him feel good, so of course I think it's a positive. He says he watches guys check me out at the gym...
But both of us are very loyal.
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But some people can get insecure over such things and become annoying.
I was just saying your pretty good for not being such. And your husband too, given what you just said.
I was out at the club with 2 of my GFs and went out side to vape, and started chatting with a guy from England. I found chatting much more enjoyable than the loud music, no flirting or anything.... and photographers came by and took a pic of us and put it in the social section on line.
Everyone freaked out and asked if my husband saw it..... and I was like "I showed it to him." Yes, I actually talk to people when I go out.
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I don't understand... HE didn't do anything, so nothing to be uncool about? If a woman hits on him, it will make him feel good, so of course I think it's a positive. He says he watches guys check me out at the gym...
Whatever a guy is doing, whether working out at a gym, or whatever, when a random strange female gives a compliment, in our minds, it confirms that what we are doing is the right thing.
For me, it is my beard. A few times each year, random strange women approach me and hit on me focusing on my beard. Which confirms in my mind that women like full beards, and it has me convinced that I will never shave my beard.
You can't connect how his getting in better shape and someone coming on to him are connected?
Seriously?
I'd find it inappropriate if someone is married. The whole getting in shape part wouldn't come into my line of thinking. I mean, even I work out, but I wouldn't assume just because someone flashed her **** at me would mean anything. Chances are she was probably drunk. lol So I wouldn't break my arm patting myself on the back over some muscles.
I've seen women flash groups of dudes, fat, skinny, musclar, all body types. They do it for the attention and because it's a cruise and because it's fun. Ever been to Mardi Gras? Same situation. Of course they do it "for the beads" ;-)
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He was happy that all all the gym time apparently paid off.... 
