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This. No-brainer. For a large number of people, having a bond on some level is one thing that helps create sexual compatibility. I don't expect you to understand or accept this, OP, but it's a fact.
I literally know no people like this in real life. You would buy a car without test driving it huh? "The driver/car bond will overcome any issues the car may have or overcome things I don't like about it!"
I literally know no people like this in real life. You would buy a car without test driving it huh? "The driver/car bond will overcome any issues the car may have or overcome things I don't like about it!"
You're the only one arguing over sexual incompatibilities. The rest of us are telling you that a lousy bond doesn't need to lead to sex at all. No one has to "test drive" someone they're personally incompatible with.
I literally know no people like this in real life. You would buy a car without test driving it huh? "The driver/car bond will overcome any issues the car may have or overcome things I don't like about it!"
As Liberty pointed out, getting to know someone to see if there's any potential basis for bonding, first, is part of the vetting process.
Notice your black-and-white thinking. No one except you is talking about not test-driving a human, before "buying" (marrying) them. No one. That's not what your own OP is about. You change the goal posts, in order to make opinions that differ with yours seem absurd. That's very obvious though; it may work for you on other forums, but it won't work here.
As Liberty pointed out, getting to know someone to see if there's any potential basis for bonding, first, is part of the vetting process.
Notice your black-and-white thinking. No one except you is talking about not test-driving a human, before "buying" (marrying) them. No one. That's not what your own OP is about. You change the goal posts, in order to make opinions that differ with yours seem absurd. That's very obvious though; it may work for you on other forums, but it won't work here.
The opinions that do differ from mine ARE absurd on this topic. Look I get it, message boards are full of perfect people who don't enjoy sex until marriage in the missionary position for procreation only. Fact remains the real world is not like this, no matter how much you try to think it is.
The opinions that do differ from mine ARE absurd on this topic. Look I get it, message boards are full of perfect people who don't enjoy sex until marriage in the missionary position for procreation only. Fact remains the real world is not like this, no matter how much you try to think it is.
See, you're just making that up, now. You're proving my point. The people you normally talk to IRL must not be very bright, lol. Good luck.
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