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Old 01-05-2019, 01:13 PM
 
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Oh good. He’s oblivious while his partner expends emotional and physical energy with other men. And possibly being exposed to diseases.
A satement about her behavior?
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:15 PM
 
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Definitely.
But I couldn't...I was craving her as I mentioned before for many years...
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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But I couldn't...I was craving her as I mentioned before for many years...
So now you know. Along with the other guys with whom she's dallying.

What is your actual question?
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:28 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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You cannot get mad when a cheater cheats on you....

I don't care how "genuine" your feelings are...you're being selfish and getting what comes naturally.

Pray you don't catch an STD.
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:31 PM
 
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So now you know. Along with the other guys with whom she's dallying.

What is your actual question?
Why all this in such a way?To cause such pain in two people who care and love her, to her partner at first who doesn't know anything yet but he will figure it out sooner or later and to me afterwards who I was deeply in love with her for so many years and she knew. She was pretending to be in love with me also, not just a hook up...
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:37 PM
 
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You cannot get mad when a cheater cheats on you....

I don't care how "genuine" your feelings are...you're being selfish and getting what comes naturally.

Pray you don't catch an STD.
If you see the shallow part of the story, yes that's correct, I am the selfish one for being in love with her, for wishing with all my heart to make her mine, what she is going to get coming naturally at her?
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why all this in such a way?To cause such pain in two people who care and love her, to her partner at first who doesn't know anything yet but he will figure it out sooner or later and to me afterwards who I was deeply in love with her for so many years and she knew. She was pretending to be in love with me also, not just a hook up...
Why did she do it?


Ehhhh there are a million possible reasons why, most of which are not good and don't involve love.

But sometimes this is what happens when you finally get what you think you've wanted for a really long time.
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Old 01-05-2019, 01:50 PM
 
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Why did she do it?


Ehhhh there are a million possible reasons why, most of which are not good and don't involve love.

But sometimes this is what happens when you finally get what you think you've wanted for a really long time.
That's true indeed, so if she wants to act like this why she doesn't put an end to her current relationship? Or at least before all that happened to declare to me that she didn't want to continue the affair with me? She could have handled the things way differently and more smartly..
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Old 01-05-2019, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Northern panhandle WV
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That's true indeed, so if she wants to act like this why she doesn't put an end to her current relationship? Or at least before all that happened to declare to me that she didn't want to continue the affair with me? She could have handled the things way differently and more smartly..
So could you.

Sorry but to me this whole thing reads like a cheap romance novel.
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Old 01-05-2019, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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So you're upset that the woman who is cheating on her partner with you is also cheating on you with a third man? Does that cover it?
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