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Old 01-25-2019, 10:04 AM
 
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Old 01-25-2019, 10:09 AM
 
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I have a couple of female friends (almost 60) that are still having "boyfriend" issues.

They were in long term marriages and then divorced. The things they are doing is just crazy. Like they are teenagers again. Not having sex, but wanting sex, thinking they missed out on something.

I'm glad i got that all out of my system while i was still young.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:17 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Eh.

More partners is no guarantee of experiencing good sex. Mixed bag.

You wouldn't be posting if you weren't having regrets or fear of missing out.

Your posts overall indicate a pretty notable pattern of ruminating on the past and perseveration over choices made and opportunities ostensibly missed. This is more of the same.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy can help.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:18 AM
 
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It all feels roughly the same if that's what you are asking. I'd rather have consistently with one person though. If you found the one glove that fits, don't quit.
I was going to say the same thing...it all feels the same in the dark.

Plus, today it seems even more of a bad decision for a guy to date or have sex with a large sampling of females......if/when things go bad you're risking nutty behavior, false claims, a ruining of your reputation (and possible employment), child birth/support issues and a legal system set up to your detriment/expense in all such cases.

Of course I'm not saying that would happen in every relationship a guy might get into, but that the odds are better for something negative like that to happen with a larger group of female dating/sex partners and bigger exposure to things going wrong at some point.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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The time to think about this was in your 20s, not now, after you’re married.

How about telling yourself you dodged a bullet? You could have knocked up a few one night stands and had a couple of kids by now.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:23 AM
 
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From a girl’s perspective, yes
??? Care to expand on your answer?
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:27 AM
 
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Yes.

You missed contracting STDs.
You missed broken hearts.
You missed worrying the next day if you knocked her up.
You missed damaging your conscience.

So, yeah, you missed out.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:28 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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I was going to say the same thing...it all feels the same in the dark.
I can honestly say...no it doesn't. Shape, size, weight, whether or not the person has had kids or does their kegels.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:29 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Yes.

You missed contracting STDs.
You missed broken hearts.
You missed worrying the next day if you knocked her up.
You missed damaging your conscience.

So, yeah, you missed out.
Do guys really worry about knocking someone up that much? i notice it comes up a lot in posts.
 
Old 01-25-2019, 10:30 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I was going to say the same thing...it all feels the same in the dark.
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What? No, no nooooo. First, the dark? Second, no no noooo. Sex is so very different with so many people.


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Do guys really worry about knocking someone up that much? i notice it comes up a lot in posts.
Yeah, this is and STDs are so very easy to avoid if you have any clue whatsoever. I had some fear of it in my teens, and maybe early 20s, but I was a kid. As an adult? Nah.
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