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Old 03-15-2019, 09:24 PM
 
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I been noticing my girlfriend different reactions when I watch drama shows or movies with her. For example when we are watching Maury show, when it’s the guy cheating on the girl in the show she says the guy is a dog and wrong for doing that to her. However when it’s a girl cheating on a guy on the show it’s all funny and entertaining to her. Same with Lifetime movies and any other tv show or movie that deals with cheating.

I’m starting to wonder does she condone cheating or would she cheat on me because of her reactions to these tv shows and movies. Am I overreacting or no? Been together 3 years
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Old 03-15-2019, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Canada
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You lost me at "when we are watching Maury".
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Old 03-15-2019, 09:28 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Are you really actually like for serious basing her beliefs on fidelity on Maury and movies? Especially after 3 years?

Really think about that for a second.
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Old 03-15-2019, 09:30 PM
 
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I been noticing my girlfriend different reactions when I watch drama shows or movies with her. For example when we are watching Maury show, when it’s the guy cheating on the girl in the show she says the guy is a dog and wrong for doing that to her. However when it’s a girl cheating on a guy on the show it’s all funny and entertaining to her. Same with Lifetime movies and any other tv show or movie that deals with cheating.

I’m starting to wonder does she condone cheating or would she cheat on me because of her reactions to these tv shows and movies. Am I overreacting or no? Been together 3 years

I think you are over reacting. I imagine if she were cheating she would over compensate the other way. Folks always tend to oversell denial through indignation and phony outrage. The biggest bashers of gays usually have inner feelings and curiosity about it. Just watch some TV and relax. Looking for problems in a relationship is the fastest way to guarantee finding them.
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Old 03-15-2019, 09:35 PM
 
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Another thing I meant to say is that in movies when it’s the guy cheating and having sex with another woman she has a shocked face and shakes her head. When it’s the woman cheating and having sex with another man she also has a shocked face but also starts laughing and find it entertaining
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Old 03-15-2019, 10:29 PM
 
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Is there anything else about your relationship you'd like to share with us? Or do we need to extrapolate based on her Maury reactions alone?
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Old 03-15-2019, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Have you discussed this with her?
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Old 03-15-2019, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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WTH Lol ��
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Old 03-16-2019, 12:19 AM
 
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Could be a yellow flag. Especially, if she's doing it to generate your reaction.
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Old 03-16-2019, 12:20 AM
 
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Why don't you ask her, not us. Report back!
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