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Old 05-29-2019, 11:48 AM
 
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If she said no, that means no.

Now you can leave her alone.
Where in that message did I even say that she said “no?” If you’re that pessimistic please stop replying to my posts. Thank you.

 
Old 05-29-2019, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You may have to be satisfied to give it some time while she either gets over being 'hurt' because she may think you didn't stick it out with what ended up being temporary and realizes that there was no way of knowing that at the time.
If she can't see that, at least eventually, maybe you should rethink the whole relationship
 
Old 05-29-2019, 01:00 PM
 
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Where in that message did I even say that she said “no?” If you’re that pessimistic please stop replying to my posts. Thank you.
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She’s still hurt that I told her we don’t ever have to speak again, when she freaking out on me a couple weeks ago. Will it just take time?
Obviously you spoke to her, because I doubt you can read minds. And clearly you asked to get back together, and she declined.
 
Old 05-29-2019, 01:09 PM
 
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She’s still hurt that I told her we don’t ever have to speak again, when she freaking out on me a couple weeks ago. Will it just take time?

Of course she's still freaked out. Doesn't matter. You don't wait until she's cooled off. You go and tell her. Bring chocolates, roses, and if you can a real live pony. Ask forgiveness and ask her back. THEN if she doesn't want you back, it's over.
 
Old 05-29-2019, 01:30 PM
 
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Of course she's still freaked out. Doesn't matter. You don't wait until she's cooled off. You go and tell her. Bring chocolates, roses, and if you can a real live pony. Ask forgiveness and ask her back. THEN if she doesn't want you back, it's over.
Brought her favorite food and snacks I think it helped but I was more open with her. Told I freaked out and because we have argued about similar things before (I.e. me not practicing her love language much) but certainly not to the magnitude at which we argued a couple weeks ago. She said she understood why so reacted that way but she definitely needs a few days to sort everything out and move past it
 
Old 05-29-2019, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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(I.e. me not practicing her love language much)
How hard can this be^^^ that you've argued about it multiple times in your short relationship?

What is her "love language"??
 
Old 05-29-2019, 02:23 PM
 
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How hard can this be^^^ that you've argued about it multiple times in your short relationship?

What is her "love language"??
She likes words of affirmation and thoughtful gestures
 
Old 05-29-2019, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She likes words of affirmation and thoughtful gestures
And you can't do that??
 
Old 05-29-2019, 03:56 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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She thinks I’m too rough around the edges for her sister
You can be a cool dude AND a loving bf. Just saying - one doesn't exclude the other. I advise you to become a more soft and cuddly person, listen to her, be interested in what she says and does. Good luck to you.
 
Old 05-29-2019, 06:05 PM
 
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You can be a cool dude AND a loving bf. Just saying - one doesn't exclude the other. I advise you to become a more soft and cuddly person, listen to her, be interested in what she says and does. Good luck to you.
I’m learning that! She would tell me that constantly and I would ignore her honestly. It’s clearer now
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