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Old 05-27-2019, 04:49 PM
 
Location: California
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A month of 'busy'? "The time is proper"? Like when and if she and her current boyfriend break up?
Don't hang around waiting for her.
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Good on you for not texting. You'll have your answer when she either texts you or doesn't.

Go out and meet other women in the time being. When you really dig someone, it's really easy to come off as kind of needy.
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Not necessarily. Some people hate confrontation and actually believe that leaving you hints is easier than telling you the truth.

There is nothing to be patient for. I would not wait around for her. Tim to move forward.
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Go about your life. If she contacts you again with some definite plan to see you, then fine. Try it out if you want to by then. Just don't put your life on hold waiting for it.
All these suggestions sound so familiar to me.
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Old 05-27-2019, 04:54 PM
 
Location: California
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Thank you Tina!
Good Luck with your decisions.
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Old 05-27-2019, 04:55 PM
 
Location: Florida
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All these suggestions sound so familiar to me.
As they should, given the too frequent circumstances
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Old 05-27-2019, 06:23 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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If someone is interesting to me I’m gonna make time to see them. She’s playing with you
Yep.

I've skipped exams to hang out with a guy I was interested in.
I've called in sick to work.
I've fibbed to my parents in order to make time to be with someone I was into.

I'm not saying it was right or healthy , but the point is that if someone is really into you, they won't continually put you off. They will make it happen.
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Old 05-27-2019, 06:25 PM
 
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She's lukewarm. Is that what you want?
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Old 05-27-2019, 07:04 PM
 
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She's lukewarm. Is that what you want?
Nope. Just honest opinions.
Doesn’t hurt my feelings.
Lived 25 years comfortably without her, i’m sure I can manage another 25
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Old 05-27-2019, 07:06 PM
 
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Yep.

I've skipped exams to hang out with a guy I was interested in.
I've called in sick to work.
I've fibbed to my parents in order to make time to be with someone I was into.

I'm not saying it was right or healthy , but the point is that if someone is really into you, they won't continually put you off. They will make it happen.
Why do girls play these games in general?
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Old 05-27-2019, 07:12 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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This is the kind stupid advice I was speaking about. Postulating a whole scenario in her head over something that she has no idea is actually the case. That’s what happens when one lets their imagination run wild.

Your right. I totally agree...
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Old 05-27-2019, 07:15 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why do girls play these games in general?
What games?
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Old 05-27-2019, 07:18 PM
 
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What games?
The whole, I’m interested in you kind of thing, if I wasn’t interested in you I wouldn’t be texting you, etc.
Keep in mind this girl lives an hour away and we would have never crossed paths if it wasn’t for online dating.
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