What does it mean when a guy says you're a "Good girl"
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Like I said before, wasnt being rude, it was a conversation with folks I have worked with for years and we could talk about relationships. We just random asked one day what do you hav to offer a guy other than sex. Some got pissed an others had answers. We werent on a date and I asked them this.
It is pretty rude, dude. You asked a question with the presumption that most woman are only good for sex.
It is pretty rude, dude. You asked a question with the presumption that most woman are only good for sex.
Right. It is presumed because he doesn't seem to acknowledge the question could be asked without regard to gender. What does anyone have to offer one who thinks just sex can be made into a relationship?
Do the friendships with his male friends include sex as well, or what good are those relationships to the asker of this question?
This culture of taking offense to everything is a bit tiresome. I just don’t GAF and it’s almost like people have forgotten what real problems are. When we have another depression, war, or plague all of these cultural sensitivities will be put much more into perspective.
They actually want to keep their guy happy and go out their way to do things for their guy, and when I ask them what do they have to offer other than sex, they can actually give a list of reasons of what they have to offer a man in a relationship. Its crazy when I ask alot of females of what they have to offer a guy and they have nothing to say than, he is supposed to be pursuing me, what do you mean, what do I have to offer.
Oh, jeez, i'm a librarian, for heaven's sake. So some guys seem to think that means I have this wholesome exterior and when alone my kinky side comes out. No pressure there! I don't think that the stereotype is appropriate or funny and therefore the role is uncomfortable for me. Yes, I get 'good girl' sometimes, I probably am a 'girl next door type'. I find it a big turn off to be labeled as such in advance because it does make me feel I have to perform up to some standard they carry in their head. I'm way more complex and layered than a dumb meme.
I met a 50 year old man a few years back who'd never had a woman on top! He was totally surprised and enjoyed the result. So I must have seemed like a wild girl to him. Another guy in that same era wanted something that was physically awkward for me, and decided from my reluctance that I wasn't kinky enough. I was just afraid of injury so it wasn't at all pleasurable to me.
No one was ever rude enough to ask that of me. It wasn't necessary.
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Originally Posted by timberline742
You must like getting laughed at. Any woman with a modicum of self esteem and any intelligence whatsoever would laugh her behind off at anyone that would dare to be so rude and crude.
Re the OP, it is all about context.
Right!? I would have "next..." any guy who said "good girl" if it was used in the context I suspect. Non-starter.
For me using that phrases or term would be in the context of the woman being a good catch, or being great to bring home to meet dear ol Ma.
That how I'd think of using that term or phrase.
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That's hilarious.
