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This isn't an Australian thing. Post some links or studies to back this crap you keep repeating over and over about Australian women being waaay more aggressive. It is not a known fact. Men are way more aggressive in every culture and country, and yes, even in Australia.
So what's your agenda? If you wanted to know "how to safely say no", just say no. How are you sacrificing your dignity and self respect? Are you turning them down in a diaper? Naked? Dress covered in mud? You make no sense at all.
You believe this doesn't haven't why?
Because they're women and I'm a man?
I guess that very same primitive belief occurs when I turn them down and get accused of sexual harassment because as we all know "men don't turn down women" right?
"He must be lying because I've never seen or been through that same situation!"
"Now provide some studies that show your personal circumstances doesn't exist"
Perhaps I should start a new thread asking for the men that don't have to embarrass themselves in front of women and get rejected always to answer instead?
Perhaps that should thin the herd of all the jaded losers out there?
You're the one who's miserable. OP...about sacrificing your dignity and self respect. Shouldn't this have been posted in the Mental Health sub-forum? This has nothing to do with Relationships.
You're the one who's miserable. OP...about sacrificing your dignity and self respect. Shouldn't this have been posted in the Mental Health sub-forum? This has nothing to do with Relationships.
Yes being accused of being in the wrong because I'm a guy is demeaning
You're the one who's miserable. OP...about sacrificing your dignity and self respect. Shouldn't this have been posted in the Mental Health sub-forum? This has nothing to do with Relationships.
It was posted here because of (what I hoped to be) people's first hand accounts of the opposite sex, what it turned out to be ironically was the exactly same exercise of ridicule I've come to know and hate while dealing with the opposite sex.
Not out of the blue, once they figure I'm not interested it's game on
As a previous poster mentioned cultures are different, but yeah I agree posting here was a mistake.
That's still out of the blue, except....
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Originally Posted by Australian_guy
I've had everything from getting their friends to come over while they're drunk and accuse me of being gay to attempts to glass me in the back of the head.
Welcome to Sydney?
that it sounds like maybe most of this happens in bars? Bars aren't likely places to find best behavior regardless of whether your view of the Equator is up or down.
I don't care where you go, women aren't genetically wired to behave as you're describing, so very few do.......in most settings.
that it sounds like maybe most of this happens in bars? Bars aren't likely places to find best behavior regardless of whether your view of the Equator is up or down.
I don't care where you go, women aren't genetically wired to behave as you're describing, so very few do.......in most settings.
I have experienced it in a doctors office waiting room and in a restaurant [though granted in the restaurant when I got catcalled the ladies were drinking].
I have experienced it in a doctors office waiting room and in a restaurant [though granted in the restaurant when I got catcalled the ladies were drinking].
You've been accused of being gay and had attempts to glass you in the back of the head in a doctor's office waiting room? How come we haven't seen you on Jerry Springer?
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If you wanted to know "how to safely say no", just say no. How are you sacrificing your dignity and self respect? Are you turning them down in a diaper? Naked? Dress covered in mud? You make no sense at all.
How come we haven't seen you on Jerry Springer?