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Old 06-09-2019, 05:23 PM
 
Location: North Dakota
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Its nighttime and you and your significant other just got done having sex. Would you consider it to be disrespectful if your significant other started playing video games after having sex with you or you wouldn't think it to be a big deal?
Would you rather they smoked cigarettes or fell asleep instead?
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Old 06-09-2019, 06:40 PM
 
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Well, in my limited experience the human female generally seems to prefer clinging affectionately after mating. Fortunately that's what I prefer too, so that's what we do.


As for video games, I really can't imagine any woman being OK with a video game right afterwards. Talk about going from an activity of maximum closeness to an activity of maximum self-absorption. Why not just throw a bucket of ice water on her as well?
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Old 06-09-2019, 07:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Well, in my limited experience the human female generally seems to prefer clinging affectionately after mating. Fortunately that's what I prefer too, so that's what we do.


As for video games, I really can't imagine any woman being OK with a video game right afterwards. Talk about going from an activity of maximum closeness to an activity of maximum self-absorption. Why not just throw a bucket of ice water on her as well?
Well said.
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Old 06-09-2019, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Well, in my limited experience the human female generally seems to prefer clinging affectionately after mating. Fortunately that's what I prefer too, so that's what we do.


As for video games, I really can't imagine any woman being OK with a video game right afterwards. Talk about going from an activity of maximum closeness to an activity of maximum self-absorption. Why not just throw a bucket of ice water on her as well?
OMG. Maximum self-absorption? Really. Okay, so what other activities fall under this crap? Having a smoke, drinking some water, checking my phone? Honestly I’d never bang anyone who was that damn sensitive about me having the unmitigated ball to actually having a life after sex.
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Old 06-09-2019, 09:58 PM
 
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Well, in my limited experience the human female generally seems to prefer clinging affectionately after mating. Fortunately that's what I prefer too, so that's what we do.


As for video games, I really can't imagine any woman being OK with a video game right afterwards. Talk about going from an activity of maximum closeness to an activity of maximum self-absorption. Why not just throw a bucket of ice water on her as well?
Sho nuff. The OP seems clueless. But, at his age, I was probably just as oblivious. Not anymore.
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Old 06-09-2019, 11:47 PM
 
Location: California Bay Area
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OMG. Maximum self-absorption? Really. Okay, so what other activities fall under this crap? Having a smoke, drinking some water, checking my phone? Honestly I’d never bang anyone who was that damn sensitive about me having the unmitigated ball to actually having a life after sex.
I don't think anyone minds if you drink water...
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Old 06-10-2019, 05:37 AM
 
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OMG. Maximum self-absorption? Really. Okay, so what other activities fall under this crap? Having a smoke, drinking some water, checking my phone? Honestly I’d never bang anyone who was that damn sensitive about me having the unmitigated ball to actually having a life after sex.
Well, I can only tell about my own personal experience. That personal experience does, however, include 30 years of marriage, during which there has been some sex.
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Old 06-10-2019, 08:41 AM
 
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Sho nuff. The OP seems clueless. But, at his age, I was probably just as oblivious. Not anymore.
Firstly, I'm a she Secondly, I am far from clueless. I do cuddle afterwards, but sometimes going to sleep right away isn't something I am able to do so I play video games or watch TV if I still can't sleep, especially since my work schedule is the way it is.
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Old 06-10-2019, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Firstly, I'm a she Secondly, I am far from clueless. I do cuddle afterwards, but sometimes going to sleep right away isn't something I am able to do so I play video games or watch TV if I still can't sleep, especially since my work schedule is the way it is.
I would think that as long as you don't roll over and immediately grab the controller and unpause your game, you should be able to do what you want.

Has someone made a comment about it to you?
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Old 06-10-2019, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I would think that as long as you don't roll over and immediately grab the controller and unpause your game, you should be able to do what you want.

Has someone made a comment about it to you?
Video games afterwards ? Pshhh! If she can stand up and play video games �� afterwards.... he didn’t hit it right. ����. You know watimsay’n. Lol.
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