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You know he’s been cheating on you numerous times, so your solution was to continue to have sex with him, hoping you’ll get pregnant, thinking it will save the relationship.
Single females go thru this all the time: ones with no money or career and some say it's the best decision they ever made (keeping the baby) and others live's are ruined, being a single financially-challenged mother.
I'm voting for you to check into adoption.
Just make your own decision, without him. And get yourself together for goodness sake. Get a counseling appointment for tomorrow and go alone.
You know he’s been cheating on you numerous times, so your solution was to continue to have sex with him, hoping you’ll get pregnant, thinking it will save the relationship.
Palmtrees, you can do so much better than this. Whatever happens with the pregnancy, you need to get rid of this man. He is not the man for you. I'm so sorry. There is someone much better out there for you.
Palmtrees, you can do so much better than this. Whatever happens with the pregnancy, you need to get rid of this man. He is not the man for you. I'm so sorry. There is someone much better out there for you.
Someday in the future she's going to look back on this time with regret and wonder why she wasted so much time and effort on someone who didn't love or respect her.
OP, getting pregnant does not fix a relationship problem; it only makes it worse as you have now found out.
Please consider what type of life you can offer this child and what environment they will grow up in.
You need to consider realty over your strong maternal instinct.
Yes it would devastate me and my boyfriend hasn't even considered this
If you keep it and stick him with child support it will devastate someone who has already said they don't want a kid. At some point the kid will want to know why dad didn't want to be a dad. There are no winners in this.
If you go the child support route just know that you two will more than likely be in constant touch for at least the next 18 years. Most I know that went this route hate each other.
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