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I’ve been through a lot in terms of breakup, I’ve lost my confidence and find it hard to attract girls. I was thinking of hiring an escort, money is not an issue. Could this help me get my confidence up?
Firstly, only if you want to have a very awkward conversation with a future partner about why you have been to a prostitute (or lie about it). This is something I've asked those I've dated as a way to weed out the losers. I had someone admit it once and he got dumped.
And secondly, if you are looking to increase your confidence, why would you pay someone to sleep with you? That person won't be sleeping with you out of love, or even attraction. They will probably be looking forward to it being over ASAP. This sounds like the absolute worst thing you could do for your confidence, is pay someone to pretend to like you while you both know it's just a lie.
I’ve been through a lot in terms of breakup, I’ve lost my confidence and find it hard to attract girls. I was thinking of hiring an escort, money is not an issue. Could this help me get my confidence up?
Dude. Renting a friend is a waste of resources and time. You go out and make them first of all.
If you've lost your confidence then work on improving yourself and your world. Stack the deck in your favor.
Some female out there will be looking for a smart, industrious and capable man. Be that and all will be well.
Escorts won't fulfill the empty space inside that feeds the desire for companionship. It is a business/entertainment transaction no more no less.
I recommend on learning to get to know yourself and feel confident in your own skin; this reflects outwardly in a nice way and builds self-esteem. Join special interest/hobby groups helps from both sides; learning to like yourself and interact with other people that may be interested in you. Its easier to start a converstation and build from that when everyone has a mutual interest.
I’ve been through a lot in terms of breakup, I’ve lost my confidence and find it hard to attract girls. I was thinking of hiring an escort, money is not an issue. Could this help me get my confidence up?
Why are you asking strangers? If you've had a bad breakup, you should take a break from "attracting girls", anyway.
Firstly, only if you want to have a very awkward conversation with a future partner about why you have been to a prostitute (or lie about it). This is something I've asked those I've dated as a way to weed out the losers. I had someone admit it once and he got dumped.
And secondly, if you are looking to increase your confidence, why would you pay someone to sleep with you? That person won't be sleeping with you out of love, or even attraction. They will probably be looking forward to it being over ASAP. This sounds like the absolute worst thing you could do for your confidence, is pay someone to pretend to like you while you both know it's just a lie.
Why is it a big deal? We all have physical needs for sex if a man can’t attract women then how else can he have sex? If a women is in the same boat and extremely horny it’s much easier for her to find sex then a guy.
As for your first part most men would just lie. I Bet you men you’ve been with didn’t tell you about getting a prostitute and lied to you.
Why is it a big deal? We all have physical needs for sex if a man can’t attract women then how else can he have sex? If a women is in the same boat and extremely horny it’s much easier for her to find sex then a guy.
As for your first part most men would just lie. I Bet you men you’ve been with didn’t tell you about getting a prostitute and lied to you.
It's a big deal for me because I used to work as an interpreter for the police in an overseas country. I've been there in the aftermath of brothel raids. Some of these women who work as escorts are illegal immigrants who are forced into it and feel they have no way out. Many feel forced into it and trapped by their financial situation or by a pimp.
It's a massive deal for me because it gives insight into whether a man sees a prostitute and sees her as a fellow human being, who is most likely in an unfortunate situation, or whether he sees her as a Mod cut. he can use. I want a man who is the former and I've met plenty of lovely, respectful men who think prostitution (i.e. paying someone to pretend to like you) is repulsive.
I've also come across a few guys who have admitted using escorts and for all of them, they have turned out to be people who lacked respect for women and for people in general. So for me it is definitely a reason to dump someone and I find that as long as you don't appear to be "clutching your pearls" and ask casually, men will tell you the truth.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 06-16-2019 at 01:58 PM..
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