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Old 06-26-2019, 07:33 PM
 
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This is what a woman said to me after talking a dating for a few months.
She said she can’t commit to anyone at this moment, but herself and her career.

Is there a way to swoop her up and tell her to give it a shot?
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Old 06-26-2019, 07:35 PM
 
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Old 06-26-2019, 07:35 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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This is what a woman said to me after talking a dating for a few months.
She said she can’t commit to anyone at this moment, but herself and her career.

Is there a way to swoop her up and tell her to give it a shot?
james112 will be along in a minute to give you a play-by-play on how, but I wouldn't recommend it.

You shouldn't have to talk someone into liking you.

She's trying to let you down in a nice way. Take the hint.
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Old 06-26-2019, 07:40 PM
 
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james112 will be along in a minute to give you a play-by-play on how, but I wouldn't recommend it.

You shouldn't have to talk someone into liking you.

She's trying to let you down in a nice way. Take the hint.
She told me she likes me? I don’t understand how you’re so sure.
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Old 06-26-2019, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She told me she likes me? I don’t understand how you’re so sure.
She may "like you" but not enough to fit you into her life "right now," which means not enough.

She's not hot for you. If she were, she would find a way to see you. Right now she's making excuses that won't hurt your feelings, and that is what you need to hear, not the "I like you" part.
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Old 06-26-2019, 08:04 PM
 
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Did she actually say that you were the right guy?
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Old 06-26-2019, 09:32 PM
 
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She told me she likes me? I don’t understand how you’re so sure.
You can be sure because if she was really into you she would figure out how to make it the right time. I suspect like someone else says, she does want to let you down easy. So she doesn't dislike you as a buddy, but she isn't in to you as Mr. Right. Just take it for what it is, and move on. Be glad she was honest and forthright enough to tell you rather than string it along.
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Old 06-26-2019, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Move on!
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Old 06-26-2019, 09:41 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
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Never chase after a woman. Show some pride, she's dismissed you from her life.
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Old 06-26-2019, 09:58 PM
 
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Nope.

If somebody wants you in their life, you don't have to sell them on it.

Move along.
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