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cBach, this is the downside of selling your soul to date a hot, shallow chick like this.
You know in your head that she will behave as long as you give her what you want, and you know that's not cool, but up to now buying her stuff she wants hasn't been that big a deal to you.
But now she wants to do something really expensive that you aren't really on board with, and you're torn.
You have to decide how much of yourself you're willing to sacrifice just so people will see you with a pretty girl, and how much of a ***** you'll feel like in 10 years (if she stays around that long) for putting up with it.
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I just read she wants you to pay for this.
Absolutely not.
OP, she sounds awful. Wanting all the men to want her and all the women to be jealous is just . . . intolerable. The fact that she thinks it is one thing, the fact that she's so clueless that she SAYS IT is over the top.
I know it's great having sex with the prettiest woman you've ever met, but the rest of the time you're with her - the 90% when you're not having sex must be miserable.
My girlfriend is beautiful, you've probably heard it on here before. She has C size breasts and virtually no fat. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen and I think these procedures are a waste.
However, she wants "bolt on" boobs as she calls them and wants liposuction and she has an appointment today. She has asked me to support her in this, "it's not your body it's mine and I can do whatever I want and as a boyfriend you should support me" is what she said.
Please respond soon because the appointment is soon and I don't know if I should just support her because she's my girlfriend or not attend because I don't believe she needs this unnecessary surgery. On the other side maybe I should be there so she doesn't go too "overboard"... ?
No, a bf shouldn't support an unhealthy mindset and fixation on perfection. It's that simple.
So, OP, what are her redeeming features, other than her beauty? Why are you with her?
OP, she sounds awful. Wanting all the men to want her and all the women to be jealous is just . . . intolerable. The fact that she thinks it is one thing, the fact that she's so clueless that she SAYS IT is over the top.
I know it's great having sex with the prettiest woman you've ever met, but the rest of the time you're with her - the 90% when you're not having sex must be miserable.
Wait, what??!
OP----el dumpo. You gotta get real with yourself, and bail out of this before it gets worse. Let some other chump get roped into financing her poor body image and obsession with an unrealistic definition of "perfection". Face it; she has issues. Self-image issues. entitlement-to-your-money issues, superficiality issues. And that's just the stuff we know about.
She actually just changed her mind and said she now wants "teardrop shaped". She said she wanted that prnstr look but now thinks it's a bit much. We go to nude beaches and she wants to "have the best breasts on the beach" is her reasoning, so that all men want her and all women are jealous of her.
Annnnd, you're still with her....why? Is "narcissist" a quality you look for in a partner? Do you want to be with a woman who wants everyone on the beach salivating over her, and perhaps even trying to bust in on your relationship?
If you love her the way she is but she wants "more" because she needs others admiration, then give it up . OR OR, you aren't making her feel likes she is 'perfect' to you.
If it's the first, then you're battling against her own feelings of inadequacies.
Truthfully don't know what you can do about that if you've never, ever, made her feel that way.
However, some women just can't seem to accept themselves so... if she's paying for it herself...and thinks it will help herself accept herself...just hold her hand and hope it makes the changes that she thinks it will
Sometimes, with a single issue, it might but sometimes it's "now that I've done this, I need to do that"
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