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Old 06-28-2019, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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My girlfriend is beautiful, you've probably heard it on here before. She has C size breasts and virtually no fat. She's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen and I think these procedures are a waste.

However, she wants "bolt on" boobs as she calls them and wants liposuction and she has an appointment today. She has asked me to support her in this, "it's not your body it's mine and I can do whatever I want and as a boyfriend you should support me" is what she said.

Please respond soon because the appointment is soon and I don't know if I should just support her because she's my girlfriend or not attend because I don't believe she needs this unnecessary surgery. On the other side maybe I should be there so she doesn't go too "overboard"... ?

 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:25 AM
 
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It isn't your decision to make for her ...

Don't worry, we will tell her to dump you later if you want that advice
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:26 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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It isn't your decision to make for her ...
I know, but should I support her at the doctor's office?
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:28 AM
 
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I know, but should I support her at the doctor's office?
You support her because you care for her, not because you like her looks...

Do you dump her if she gets sick and looks bad too?
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I know, but should I support her at the doctor's office?
Yes. Duh.

Are you paying for it?
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:45 AM
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I'm surprised she's using the term "bolt on" because that's a very derogatory term for obvious breast enhancements that look and feel fake.

Also, I'd be a little leery of a woman who is pretty much already perfect who sees the need to enhance herself. Kind of a concerning hyper-focus.
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:49 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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Yes. Duh.

Are you paying for it?
She wants me to as a birthday present. So part of me doesn't want to show up so she can't say "well my boyfriends is going to pay, get his CC number".

However, the other half of me says that I could still go for the consultation and we don't have to say yes or no.
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I'm surprised she's using the term "bolt on" because that's a very derogatory term for obvious breast enhancements that look and feel fake.

Also, I'd be a little leery of a woman who is pretty much already perfect who sees the need to enhance herself. Kind of a concerning hyper-focus.
She actually just changed her mind and said she now wants "teardrop shaped". She said she wanted that prnstr look but now thinks it's a bit much. We go to nude beaches and she wants to "have the best breasts on the beach" is her reasoning, so that all men want her and all women are jealous of her.
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:57 AM
 
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She actually just changed her mind and said she now wants "teardrop shaped". She said she wanted that prnstr look but now thinks it's a bit much. We go to nude beaches and she wants to "have the best breasts on the beach" is her reasoning, so that all men want her and all women are jealous of her.
Wow, she sounds really shallow and immature.
 
Old 06-28-2019, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Wow, she sounds really shallow and immature.
She is, and he knows it, but he doesn't care because he gets to walk around with someone who looks like a porn star. No amount of rational warning will get to him.

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She wants me to as a birthday present. So part of me doesn't want to show up so she can't say "well my boyfriends is going to pay, get his CC number".

However, the other half of me says that I could still go for the consultation and we don't have to say yes or no.

If you don't want to pay for it, don't go. You will cave if you go.
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