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I'm dating a girl, who in terms of non physical things, is just about perfect
- 21, been with 3 guys in her life, no kids, no baggage
- Despite her age, is super mature, doesn't care about partying or drinking. Kinda introverted. Wants to have kids by 25 or 26
- Very sharp. Going to school to be a nurse. I never have to explain anything to her. She understands everything instantly
- Very sweet, affectionate, loving
- Would jump in front of a train for me
- Very very loyal. She is eastern European - divorce is not accepted in the culture
- Likes to cook and clean. Is a very good cook
- Doesn't really care to have a dog. This is a big deal for me - I love dogs but I have zero interest in keeping one. They are LOTS of work
- Loves kids very much and will be a great mom.
- Is aware that I make well in six figures (she makes very little) and still tries super hard to pay for dates. I allow her to pay for small stuff only so she doesn't feel dependent on me but I hate even doing that. 100 bucks to me is nothing - to her it is a ton of money. I feel horrible when she spends anything on our dates but this is a fantastic sign of her NOT being a gold digger. She is a great great great great great girl.
The issue is the physical side. She has a cute face and has spectacular body genetics (huge ass, big boobs, thick legs, narrow waist) but she's probably 10-15 lbs too big. I'm getting her into working out but hasn't been a super easy transition. She just doesn't seem to like it all that much - but we still go 2-4 times a week. I'm just worried long term that she will age horrible in terms of the body. In terms of her face, she will age wonderful - her mom is 46 and is beautiful with perfect skin with no makeup (srs)
Is it a stupid idea to date a girl like this long term? Will she like working out as she gets more results? I'm good looking and in very good shape. I want a GF who will be good looking and in good shape long term also. I am not going to be ok if she has 2 kids and is now 40 LBs overweight
I know everybody is going to tell me to dump her and find a fitness girl but finding a fitness girl with all the traits is so difficult. My girl is a fantastic person through and through.
Last edited by ArminVBuren; 07-05-2019 at 09:52 PM..
I'm dating a girl, who in terms of non physical things, is just about perfect
- 21, been with 3 guys in her life, no kids, no baggage
- Despite her age, is super mature, doesn't care about partying or drinking. Kinda introverted. Wants to have kids by 25 or 26
- Very sharp. Going to school to be a nurse. I never have to explain anything to her. She understands everything instantly
- Very sweet, affectionate, loving
- Would jump in front of a train for me
- Very very loyal. She is eastern European - divorce is not accepted in the culture
- Likes to cook and clean. Is a very good cook
- Doesn't really care to have a dog. This is a big deal for me - I love dogs but I have zero interest in keeping one. They are LOTS of work
- Loves kids very much and will be a great mom.
The issue is the physical side. She has a cute face and has spectacular body genetics (huge ass, big boobs, thick legs, narrow waist) but she's probably 10-15 lbs too big. I'm getting her into working out but hasn't been a super easy transition. She just doesn't seem to like it all that much - but we still go 2-4 times a week. I'm just worried long term that she will age horrible in terms of the body. In terms of her face, she will age wonderful - her mom is 46 and is beautiful with perfect skin with no makeup (srs)
Is it a stupid idea to date a girl like this long term?
No. It's pretty stupid to be so shallow.
You have a perfect girl, but you still managed to find something negative about her.
Go ahead, do HER a favor and stop dating her, so she can find someone who would love her for what she is. The whole package.
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Will she like working out as she gets more results? I'm good looking and in very good shape. I want a GF who will be good looking and in good shape long term also. I am not going to be ok if she has 2 kids and is now 40 LBs overweight
I know everybody is going to tell me to dump her and find a fitness girl but finding a fitness girl with all the traits is so difficult. My girl is a fantastic person through and through.
Nope. No one will tell you to dump her because of the physical flaw, but yes - you probably should, because you don't DESERVE her...
No. It's pretty stupid to be so shallow.
You have a perfect girl, but you still managed to find something negative about her.
Go ahead, do HER a favor and stop dating her, so she can find someone who would love her for what she is. The whole package.
Nope. No one will tell you to dump her because of the physical flaw, but yes - you probably should, because you don't DESERVE her...
I'm good looking and in great shape. I want a girl who is same way but I also want a girl who has all the personality traits she has
Good looking women in great shape have astonishingly high standards and even if you get one interested in you, most of them have terrible to mediocre personalities (attention obsessed, etc...). I'd be looking for a needle in a haystack trying to find a good looking, fitness oriented girl who has a heart of gold AND somehow likes me
You’re bitching over 15lbs, and future weight that she hasn’t gain yet, Lol.
I have to look at this long term. I plan on being in great shape and being good looking forever
I don't want to be 40 years old and be in amazing shape with an overweight wife. She is working out with me but she just doesn't like it. I can't seem to ignite that love of fitness in her
You’re bitching over 15lbs, and future weight that she hasn’t gain yet, Lol.
It's an illness.
OP, isn't this the one you posted (and deleted) an OP about a few days ago, complaining about some acne on her forehead, terrified her complexion wouldn't measure up to your standards in the future? In addition to complaining about her lack of motivation at the gym?
Dump her, and check into a psychotherapist's office. Do not seek a relationship until you get your brain rewired. That's an order! You aren't mature enough to have a relationship.
Please dump her. She deserves better. You will end up divorced no matter who you marry. In fact, you shouldn't marry at all or add to the gene pool.
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