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Really, the only advice I have is "Be friendly and make eye contact."
And joining the Toastmaster's Club would be EXCELLENT for learning the art of small talk and making conversation. If you're not making eye contact with people (for whatever reasons) it's literally like being the house on Halloween with the lights out and the curtains closed, and the porch light turned off.
I just don’t get it. I am always single, literally always. I’m told I’m attractive and what not but never get approached by guys. I’ve lost weight and am always single. I did not have an actual short term relationship until I was 23, mind you I was on dating apps previously.
I never was pursued before by guys I liked, which is why I was always single. The last guy I “dated” was in long term relationships before talking to me. People that saw what he looked like when he was dating me said he was unattractive and mentioned that I could have done better. Mind you, he has been in relationships with good looking women.
He moved on within a few weeks after we stopped dating and this women wasn’t bad looking either.
How can someone unattractive like him get women so easily? While someone like myself, whose told she’s attractive, always be single? I sound bitter and jealous because I am, I want to move on but can never find a boyfriend. And I wish I never dated him/ saved myself for someone closer to my standards and worth my while.
Did you break up because he was not attractive and you felt like you could have done better?
I just don’t get it. I am always single, literally always. I’m told I’m attractive and what not but never get approached by guys. I’ve lost weight and am always single. I did not have an actual short term relationship until I was 23, mind you I was on dating apps previously.
I never was pursued before by guys I liked, which is why I was always single. The last guy I “dated” was in long term relationships before talking to me. People that saw what he looked like when he was dating me said he was unattractive and mentioned that I could have done better. Mind you, he has been in relationships with good looking women.
He moved on within a few weeks after we stopped dating and this women wasn’t bad looking either.
How can someone unattractive like him get women so easily? While someone like myself, whose told she’s attractive, always be single? I sound bitter and jealous because I am, I want to move on but can never find a boyfriend. And I wish I never dated him/ saved myself for someone closer to my standards and worth my while.
Beauty is an opinion. I for one think my ex is gross. I am sure there are women who think he is super hot. Everyone defines attractiveness differently.
Does he make a lot of money? Does he have a nice car? Does he own his own home? Is he kind? I would rather date a man who is ugly but his has finances together and is kind to me than someone who is attractive and doesn't/isn't. It's not all about looks.
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