Question About Cyberstalking for Computer Gurus

[usayit]

Originally Posted by amogersum

I definitely don't pose any danger to him.

All stalkers say this.....

[ContraPagan]

Originally Posted by amogersum

Hilarious, because I'm actually a freshman psychology student, conducting a social experiment for an assignment. I have no recent ex's, and I've never had a restraining order taken out against me. Your pretending to know everything about a fictional character in a story that isn't even true is an absolute gold mine and says so much about human ego. I'll definitely be adding you in to my report.

Thanks for being you. ��

So on top of being a stalker, you are also a gaslighter.

[ChiGal7]

Originally Posted by amogersum

If anyone out there can speak to the likelihood that a corporate site admin regularly checks to see how many hits specific pages on a particular website gets, I'd appreciate the insight.

Is it common for site admin's to monitor that?

This is the Relationship forum, not the Technology help forum. You post here, you get Relationship advice. That's how we roll. Next time try to pick the correct forum to post in if you're not going accept the advice you get. But if you ask me, I think you posted here on purpose because you actually wanted to get the relationship advice subconsciously because you know what you've done is wrong and needed to be told again.

[somebodynew]

Originally Posted by amogersum

well, i am stalking him, but only by looking at his pictures online;

stop it

[Carly1983]

Regardless of whether you deserved a restraining order or not, if I had one served against me, I'd be pretty mortified about it. I think it is a good idea to do something to process the end of this relationship in general, which clearly had a traumatic ending (regardless of the circumstances around deserving the r.o. or not). If you're not already time I would say, to go into therapy and talk it over with someone. Even if you were the unlucky victim of someone who overreacted against you in a completely undeserved way, you have something to look at and address here.

I do wonder how he managed to get a restraining order against you, if you hadn't harassed him or behaved inappropriately... You have to provide some kind of proof of inappropriate contact or threatening behaviour to get one.

[BobCaldwell]

Lmao, when someone is nutty enough that a restraining order exists it speaks volumes, on top of the nuttiness expressed here.