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Dude, she has done all she can to show her interest in you. She plays it cool because she is frustrated that you aren't making a move. You said she is mature. She probably isn't going to ask you out. She must think you aren't interested because you haven't asked HER out. What more are you waiting for?
Not sure what the age difference is, but it seems like she’s definitely into you, but fears being rejected.
Are you interested in her OP? If you are, ask her out for drinks and see if she accepts.
Yes seems that way but she's difficult to figure out. She did run her fingers through my hair a couple of times. I have a feeling she just does not have the nerve to ask me out on a date. I won't ask her out until she stops playing it cool.
Yeah, she’s the one who doesn’t have the nerve, right?
So you say she’s difficult to figure out, and you won’t “ask her out until she stops playing it cool” hey? Well, given what you’ve described as her behavior, what would not playing it cool even look like? She must sit on your lap, but be naked? She can put her arm around you and run her fingers through your hair, but be naked? Only then she would be seen as not “playing it cool”? Or I suspect even that wouldn’t be enough?
Do you mean the next time you catch her “checking you out” she should also say something like: “I am interested in sexual intercourse in the parking lot at 3pm with you?” Or would that not be clear enough, because she didn’t specify whose car?
If you ever get up the nerve to ask her out, even though she has a boyfriend () definitely do not expect loyalty from this cat in heat fantasy girl...
Yes seems that way but she's difficult to figure out. She did run her fingers through my hair a couple of times. I have a feeling she just does not have the nerve to ask me out on a date. I won't ask her out until she stops playing it cool.
Why would you ask her out if she claims to have a boyfriend? Why is she doing all of that, if she does have a bf? It doesn't make sense. I'd ignore it, if I were you, or tell her to back off, or vary my schedule so as to avoid her, due to the weird mixed signals. She's being awfully forward for someone with a bf.
It doesn't matter because you already have your hands full with several part-time girlfriends. You do have a job, right?
lol.
OK, OP, to be practical, instead of just taking pot-shots at your situation, how about you just ask her sometime, by way of chatting, how her bf's doing, or what kind of work does he do, or some such, to get a read on whether he actually exists or not?
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