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Old 08-18-2019, 08:51 AM
 
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I owe my now ex gf $930 I called her crazy and told her she has psychological problems and that she’s the type of girl that hangs around there exes apartment waiting outside how does that make u feel if u borrow that amount but said those words to her
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Old 08-18-2019, 08:52 AM
 
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I owe my now ex gf $930 I called her crazy and told her she has psychological problems and that she’s the type of girl that hangs around there exes apartment waiting outside how does that make u feel if u borrow that amount but said those words to her
I would feel like I incurred a debt that I should repay.
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Old 08-18-2019, 08:56 AM
 
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Just because she's crazy doesn't cancel your debt. You knew she was a nutjob when your borrowed the money. Next time ask someone else for a loan.
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:00 AM
 
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I didn’t know she crazy when I borrowed she say she not crazy but if u dump someone then they spend hours calling and texting u from various numbers is that not crazy I mean she only did that for one day she no longer bugging me
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:08 AM
 
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Honestly? It would make me feel like a bit of a loser.
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:11 AM
 
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A loser why? I can’t say that I feel like that just that she holds that against me that I owe her
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:14 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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A loser why? I can’t say that I feel like that just that she holds that against me that I owe her
PAY HER BACK.

Until you do, you can't complain about a single thing she does.
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:20 AM
 
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I’m gonna pay her back I told her that I’m gonna start once I get a job I have none job for a month now
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:23 AM
 
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By anyone's measure, that's a lot of money. And it sounds like to your ex, who is willing to date a man who is unemployed, it's likely to her that's a LOT of money.

I'd hang around, too, to make sure you don't disappear or don't "forget" the debt.
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Old 08-18-2019, 09:25 AM
 
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.... she say she not crazy but if u dump someone then they spend hours calling and texting u from various numbers is that not crazy....
Her craziness is irrelevant to the FACT that you borrowed money from her and OWE her the money BACK. So pay the girl and then cut her out of your life for good.

Do you seriously think anyone here would tell you that you don't have to pay her back just because she's crazy? Because no one here is going to say that to you.
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