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Like...ok lady. Yeah we know! Geez! Then going out and getting knocked up by Charles Manson wannabe at the bar. Coming on to this forum and saying....oh my god y'all I'm pregnant and I think the guy is some cult leader of some satanic cult...halp.
Or on the other hand being some guy saying....Oh my god you guys, I got some girl pregnant I'm pretty sure she's Kathy Bates from Misery like **** guise what do????
For ffs reading some threads on this forum I expect to see this.
I didn't mean to go off topic. It reminded me of what I saw in my work. As women we can't just go around like "haha how fun. I'm gonna find a man. Yayyy."
We have to screen, if we have children.. or if we plan to, even more. Women are the gate keepers of the future generations imo.
We can't have every Jeffery Dahmer and Charles Manson getting through, just because we feel desperate one night.
This is just my opinion though and it might be an extreme one.
I think it's just common sense, but in our current culture it may indeed come off as extreme, at least to people who want to see it that way. We all know our rights in life but nowadays fewer and fewer people are willing to acknowledge their responsibilities.
This is not unique to either gender. Men who sleep with a woman and then judge her for it are another example of this. Both parties got to that place together. For my part I've always assumed a woman who wanted to sleep with me right away simply had good taste in men.
It’s totally dependent on the people involved, their beliefs, their ideals and the type of relationships they seek. However, “Longer” will always yield a better or “safer” approach since the risks associated with a lack of experience and connection are lessened with time.
This is why “longer” is always the answer people gravitate towards. It’s the common sense response that overtakes any emotional one.
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There probably aren't too many people *demanding* sex that are dating. The answer would be easy ....stop dating them.
Sure there are. They simply keep moving from one prospect to another. And from time to time, they'll find meek, unassertive women, who have been cowed by their own parents while growing up, raised to be easily intimidated, and afraid of their own voice. It's very sad.
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Sure there are. They simply keep moving from one prospect to another. And from time to time, they'll find meek, unassertive women, who have been cowed by their own parents while growing up, raised to be easily intimidated, and afraid of their own voice. It's very sad.
Ofc....I used to work with victims of domestic abuse in a women's shelter....BUT I see that as being different than the general subject of how soon should you sleep with a man you're dating..........
If the man is demanding sex....(or anything)....while dating.....it's still an easy solution....leave & don't sleep with him at all......shrugs. That's a problem with self esteem that goes way farther than a decision about how soon is too soon to sleep with a man...........
I think that in order to feel romantic or sexual feelings about someone, you must know them.
Really? I usually know within 3 seconds of looking at a woman whether I want to get in bed with her.
I guess I'm a very visual person.
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The answer would be easy ....stop dating them.
