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hi
i m 33 years old single women. recently because of work i come in contact with my VP and he is so kind to everyone . we were just talking about work, but one day i just though he is just flirting with me although nothing sexual. but then when he enter into room i feel different. i just ignore it and then slowly i started feeling for hi that i cant stop thinking about it. one day he called me in his cabin and says if dont see u have a good long weekend and the way he was looking at me was something different.
now i know he is higher position than me and he also have gf . and i dont know his feelings also or it just me .
other day i caught him looking at me .
but i dont know how to stop thinking about him as i am not sure about his feelings ?
or he is just professional
hi
i m 33 years old single women. recently because of work i come in contact with my VP and he is so kind to everyone . we were just talking about work, but one day i just though he is just flirting with me although nothing sexual. but then when he enter into room i feel different. i just ignore it and then slowly i started feeling for hi that i cant stop thinking about it. one day he called me in his cabin and says if dont see u have a good long weekend and the way he was looking at me was something different.
now i know he is higher position than me and he also have gf . and i dont know his feelings also or it just me .
other day i caught him looking at me .
but i dont know how to stop thinking about him as i am not sure about his feelings ?
or he is just professional
I would say you are reading into his kindness as flirting.
Stop thinking about him that way and focus on work.
Last edited by BirdieBelle; 08-31-2019 at 08:06 AM..
He talked to you like other coworkers. He looked at you. You don’t know what to think. This happens to people who work together all day everyday. He has a girl friend.
There’s nothing else to think.
hi
i m 33 years old single women. recently because of work i come in contact with my VP and he is so kind to everyone . we were just talking about work, but one day i just though he is just flirting with me although nothing sexual. but then when he enter into room i feel different. i just ignore it and then slowly i started feeling for hi that i cant stop thinking about it. one day he called me in his cabin and says if dont see u have a good long weekend and the way he was looking at me was something different.
now i know he is higher position than me and he also have gf . and i dont know his feelings also or it just me .
other day i caught him looking at me .
but i dont know how to stop thinking about him as i am not sure about his feelings ?
or he is just professional
do you want something to happen? if the answer is yes, then you're probably reading into it. Seems one directional to me.
It doesn't matter what you want or what is actually happening, this is an insane idea and should be avoided at all costs unless you're willing to be fired over it. You can't date that guy and also keep your job. Even if you could keep your job, I've been stupid enough to go down this road with a coworker who was on the same level as I was and it was the most miserable experience on Earth when it didn't work out.
So, the answer of how to stop thinking about him is to instead think of the uncomfortable conversation in the HR manager's office the day you're being fired, and then all of the uncomfortable conversations when you have to explain why you were fired in every job interview for the rest of your life.
I realize I'm taking a hard line here, but I don't feel it's unjust.
He has a GF & is your boss, so forget it. What, so he looks at you for a second longer than everyone else & says an extra sentence to you & you feel all special & you're gushy for him? Who cares. Don't do whatever you're thinking of doing! Even if he was a tad too chummy, why must you act on it?
See, young women want to be taken seriously in the workplace/corporate world, but it's tough to when the woman thinks any tiny thing is flirting or a come on by the boss. It makes more companies/bosses want to hire elderly people just so there's much less of a chance of anyone thinking flirting is going on.
Will you keep your mind on your work!
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