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I started dating my ex a few weeks ago. Yesterday we said we were officially back together. We have not had sex. He hasn't really tried and although we have been very affectionate and touch eachother, we have not gone too far. This is not the issue.
The reunion led to a fight. He does not want to state on facebook he is in a relationship with me. I have a problem with this and an argument happened. This morning he calls me as he always does to say good morning. He mentions 3x that he has to go in to the office at work. He was seeing a girl who works in the office when we were apart and always tells me he hasn't been in there since he started talking to me again. Today is payday. He borrowed money from me, just overnight so he asked me to pick it up from him after work. I said we can meet somewhere as I'm still miffed from the fight. He said "don't you want to hang out?" I said "o.k. call me when you're done and I'll go there so we can have a do over of yesterday." That is the plan.
I started to see him because I believe he had changed. Now I'm starting to question if his change was for the better. I'm feeling very tired right now. Any ideas, opinions? Stories with similaraties to share? I'm honestly a bit out of it and want to know if I'm the problem too. Why wouldn't he want to claim me on facebook? The girl from the office may be on there, I'm not sure. I mentioned to someone interested in me the other day I was seeing my ex again. I get not everyone will handle every situation same
Wondering why this boy isn't "claiming you" on social media isn't the issue. Loaning him money (already) is an issue--especially if it was a significant amount. Expecting this man to have changed is an issue.
Get your money back, get rid of him once and for all, and move forward with your life.
He paid me back. I insisted he borrow it in the first place. It was the day before payday. I am reviewing my threads still.
Your insistence does not change the fact that he's an adult who cannot manage his own life and finances well. I can also just about guarantee that he deliberately disclosed his financial needs while "protesting" as you've loaned him money in the past and he knows that you're good for it.
Who reached out to who when rekindling this relationship?
Your insistence does not change the fact that he's an adult who cannot manage his own life and finances well. I can also just about guarantee that he deliberately disclosed his financial needs while "protesting" as you've loaned him money in the past and he knows that you're good for it.
Who reached out to who when rekindling this relationship?
He reached out to me. Obsessively when I first broke it off. This went on for 2 months until I had a male friend call him and firmly tell him to stop. He had reached out to other friends of mine prior to this. He stopped for months, then one day he messaged me on a dating site. I did respond. He messaged again and I agreed to see him.
He reached out to me. Obsessively when I first broke it off. This went on for 2 months until I had a male friend call him and firmly tell him to stop. He had reached out to other friends of mine prior to this. He stopped for months, then one day he messaged me on a dating site. I did respond. He messaged again and I agreed to see him.
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