Why is it that every guy I end up dating ask to borrow money? (women, husband)
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I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
Next date, first topic of conversation should be previous LOSERS you have dated and how they asked you for money, and what a TURNOFF this is for you, and how no REAL MAN would do this. Then you can ask him about what turns him off. Set the ground rules right from the start. And stop trying to be "nice" - all of Ted Bundy's victims were being "nice" and helping him out.
Why are you claiming girlfriend status when your post makes it sound like these were nothing more than casual first or second dates? Honestly, the fact that any of them asked you for $$ at all should throw up a huge, red flag. Do a better job of screening before you go out. Select those that are employed, preferably full-time. Nice + caring doesn't equal handing out money like you are a lending officer @ a bank. In short, they are using you.
Bc they were like 2 years , 5 months. , 2 months THEY WERE EMPLOYED THEY HAD JOBS THATS HOW I MEET THEM THRU WORK
Bc they were like 2 years , 5 months. , 2 months THEY WERE EMPLOYED THEY HAD JOBS THATS HOW I MEET THEM THRU WORK
Did you not read my first post suggesting they're passing around the fact that you're good for some money?
Find your dates outside of work.
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