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Old 09-11-2019, 06:30 AM
 
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I’ve dated about 4 guys and they have all asked me for money even when just starting the relationship couple days weeks into the relationship they ask for money I don’t know maybe it’s me that attracts these types of men but they have jobs and that’s how met at work
Are you dating hood rats ?
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:05 AM
 
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Because you keep dating freeloaders.


Stop dating bums, and this will stop.
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:07 AM
 
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No man has ever asked me for money. If they did, I would smile and say I didn't have it. NO WAY!
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I don’t know what it is but I’m just scared to date not for a long time since it keeps happening and I obviously need to learn to say NO
So, you have issues saying no, even when it comes to sex on the first date?
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:24 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Never heard of such thing. I would like to know what is going on.



Are you super wealthy, flashing luxury vehicles and money? This is odd.
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:44 AM
 
Location: northern New England
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Next date, first topic of conversation should be previous LOSERS you have dated and how they asked you for money, and what a TURNOFF this is for you, and how no REAL MAN would do this. Then you can ask him about what turns him off. Set the ground rules right from the start. And stop trying to be "nice" - all of Ted Bundy's victims were being "nice" and helping him out.
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Old 09-11-2019, 07:48 AM
 
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You probably are going out with losers.
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Old 09-11-2019, 08:10 AM
 
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Why are you claiming girlfriend status when your post makes it sound like these were nothing more than casual first or second dates? Honestly, the fact that any of them asked you for $$ at all should throw up a huge, red flag. Do a better job of screening before you go out. Select those that are employed, preferably full-time. Nice + caring doesn't equal handing out money like you are a lending officer @ a bank. In short, they are using you.
Bc they were like 2 years , 5 months. , 2 months THEY WERE EMPLOYED THEY HAD JOBS THATS HOW I MEET THEM THRU WORK
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Old 09-11-2019, 08:11 AM
 
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Are you dating hood rats ?
They were employed
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Old 09-11-2019, 08:19 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Bc they were like 2 years , 5 months. , 2 months THEY WERE EMPLOYED THEY HAD JOBS THATS HOW I MEET THEM THRU WORK
Did you not read my first post suggesting they're passing around the fact that you're good for some money?
Find your dates outside of work.
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