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Old 09-11-2019, 09:53 PM
 
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I may be wrong but weren't you just in some situation where a guy was stalking you? Claiming he thought you had a relationship because you didn't draw the line while speaking online or something?

Block. Delete. Period.

 
Old 09-11-2019, 10:04 PM
 
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I may be wrong but weren't you just in some situation where a guy was stalking you? Claiming he thought you had a relationship because you didn't draw the line while speaking online or something?

Block. Delete. Period.
Yes but this has nothing to do with that.

This guy is very popular with women. He wont stalk me. The guy that stalked me was having some psychotic break during a divorce, and hes older with health problems. He had nothing to lose, since hes at deaths door. His children are grown. Hes waiting to die right now, and he thought Id be a good end of life caregiver or some such.

Guy in my op is totally different. He is...idk..but he has more to lose. Hes not a danger.

Stalker was completely different. He threatened me, kidnapping rape forced impregnation.

Ok...guy in op actually did some of that stuff though
 
Old 09-12-2019, 06:29 AM
 
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Thank you for the advice everyone. I told her to leave me alone.
 
Old 09-12-2019, 06:40 AM
 
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Yes but this has nothing to do with that.

This guy is very popular with women. He wont stalk me. The guy that stalked me was having some psychotic break during a divorce, and hes older with health problems. He had nothing to lose, since hes at deaths door. His children are grown. Hes waiting to die right now, and he thought Id be a good end of life caregiver or some such.

Guy in my op is totally different. He is...idk..but he has more to lose. Hes not a danger.

Stalker was completely different. He threatened me, kidnapping rape forced impregnation.

Ok...guy in op actually did some of that stuff though
He's waiting to die but kidnapped you?

My point being is you are putting yourself in bizarre situations.

Say nothing. Reply to nothing. Block.
 
Old 09-12-2019, 07:15 AM
 
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I agree, pretty much. I've been raped and I didn't go to the police because 1) I thought they wouldn't do anything and 2) I was scared to report it because the man who raped me was very wealthy and I was afraid he could get even or retaliate against me in some way.

A lot of crimes don't get reported and there are reasons for that. I've even asked the police to simply write up a report when I was being harassed by a former boyfriend and they wouldn't do it. That same former boyfriend just finished serving an 11 year prison sentence for another crime.
BUT O.P.s thread has been about dating a man who raped her...........& you agree with it?
 
Old 09-12-2019, 07:23 AM
 
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BUT O.P.s thread has been about dating a man who raped her...........& you agree with it?
What does "agree with it" mean? Like is it a good idea? No. But is it completely understandable and worthy of empathy. Yes.
 
Old 09-12-2019, 07:25 AM
 
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What does "agree with it" mean? Like is it a good idea? No. But is it completely understandable and worthy of empathy. Yes.
He raped her on their 1st date....it’s not normal she would keep dating him & she needs help that she would do this........
 
Old 09-12-2019, 08:41 AM
 
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He's waiting to die but kidnapped you?

My point being is you are putting yourself in bizarre situations.

Say nothing. Reply to nothing. Block.
I told her not to contact me again.

If I hear from him again I will tell him the same.

Solved.

Thank you everyone for the advice. I was jyst having a bad day yesterday, hope I didnt sound too stubborn. The advice helped.
 
Old 09-12-2019, 08:42 AM
 
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He raped her on their 1st date....it’s not normal she would keep dating him & she needs help that she would do this........
That was 6 years ago. I have gotten much better since then.
 
Old 09-12-2019, 08:46 AM
 
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That was 6 years ago. I have gotten much better since then.
But you said you still had a thing for him???? It’s just not a normal thing to date a man who raped you on the 1st date.....their stuff is not important......
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