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You don’t *date* sugar daddies....it’s an arrangement & you know that too because you are asking if it can turn into an actual relationship.............
There’s no benefit to a sugar daddy over a real relationship with love & communication & respect & real intimacy that doesn’t have to be paid for.....
Some relationships don't necessarily have to be an arrangement. They simply are a natural sugar daddie relationship where a man showers a girl with fancy dinners, vacations, jewelry, etc. All she does is show up and offer company. If you think about it, its a sugar daddy relationship after all disguised under the idea that "He's such a generous gentleman provider."
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Some relationships don't necessarily have to be an arrangement. They simply are a natural sugar daddie relationship where a man showers a girl with fancy dinners, vacations, jewelry, etc. All she does is show up and offer company. If you think about it, its a sugar daddie relationship after all disguised under the idea that "He's such a generous gentleman provider."
If all she is doing is showing up for company tho like you said....& he showers her with money & gifts....that’s exactly what a sugar daddy arrangement is.....
What I find ironic is that people also judge poor women who marry wealthy men as being almost like prostitutes. There is no escaping judgment if you're a poor female, so might as well do whatever you want
Men can be judged as well as a loser who needs to pay a girl for company specially if she is noticeably younger. When I was in Thailand I got some dirty looks from tourists when they saw me with a nice young Thai girl. But yes, there are some things society can be harsh with men and women. Double standards.
If all she is doing is showing up for company tho like you said....& he showers her with money & gifts....that’s exactly what a sugar daddy arrangement is.....
And yet many say that's just a man "being a real man, he is showing he is serious, he is a gentleman" and so on. The sugar daddy type of relationship is quite common.
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Men can be judged as well as a loser who needs to pay a girl for company specially if she is noticeably younger. When I was in Thailand I got some dirty looks from tourists when they saw me with a nice young Thai girl. But yes, there are some things society can be harsh with men and women. Double standards.
They can be as little as 10 or 14 yrs younger.....or not even look that much apart because both are attractive....& the woman is still going to be called a gold digger.........
Some wives of rich guys actually look the other way when they stray... is there a difference? The wife likes the lifestyle and is willing to put up with a few indiscressions by the husband in return.
This kind of thing is quite common I think.
Either that or they simply get a divorce and dance their way out of the court house counting all the money they got out of him, properties, cars, alimony, child support, etc. They are set for life. It's a win/win situation for those who marry their sugar daddy.
They can be as little as 10 or 14 yrs younger.....or not even look that much apart because both are attractive....& the woman is still going to be called a gold digger.........
A gold digger going out with a has-been loser. Both get labeled.
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And yet many say that's just a man "being a real man, he is showing he is serious, he is a gentleman" and so on. The sugar daddy type of relationship is quite common.
A relationship that has respect & intimacy & all that stuff when two people fall in love is not a sugar daddy relationship just because he has money.........
A sugar daddy arrangement is agreeing that the man pays an allowance & the woman is there because of the money........
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Either that or they simply get a divorce and dance their way out of the court house counting all the money they got out of him, properties, cars, alimony, child support, etc. They are set for life. It's a win/win situation for those who marry their sugar daddy.
Sugar daddies & sugar babies don’t marry......everyone knows what it is....O.P. asked if it can turn into a relationship & most are ita it doesn’t.......so....no marriage & no divorce.......
A relationship that has respect & intimacy & all that stuff when two people fall in love is not a sugar daddy relationship just because he has money.........
A sugar daddy arrangement is agreeing that the man pays an allowance & the woman is there because of the money........
It doesn’t necessarily mean they agree, sign a paper, and so on. It’s simply a man with refined taste for the finer things in life, has abundant resources, and wants to share his lavish lifestyle with a girl. These relationships can end up in marriage. We see it all the time not only with celebrities and professional athletes. These relationships are common and many sugar coat it with the idea that he is just being a real man (whatever “real” may mean), a gentleman, a provider, such a nice fellow, so generous, etc. This involves a rich man and a girl who pretty much all she brings to the table is her company and sex. Sometimes the man doesn't even have to be rich to be with a girl like that.
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