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^That's sad. He was on drugs and who knows what he might have been going through. Hope he's gone to rehab and is clean of that. I think the thread's about people we've been in relationships with or dated.
I met my husband later in life but yes, a lot of crazy out there dating. Probably the creepiest person was a psychologist I dated working in a police department of one municipality. He was a sweet talker and seemed normal at first but underneath all that he turned out to be deranged, very very controlling, addicted to sex and emotionally abusive (a huge bully). There were times when he'd switch and be completely emotionless also, no empathy, nothing, even when not provoked and was harsh in the way he treated others. Very unstable. That ended in about two months.
^That's sad. He was on drugs and who knows what he might have been going through. Hope he's gone to rehab and is clean of that. I think the thread's about people we've been in relationships with or dated.
I met my husband later in life but yes, a lot of crazy out there dating. Probably the creepiest person was a psychologist I dated working in a police department of one municipality. He was a sweet talker and seemed normal at first but underneath all that he turned out to be deranged, very very controlling, addicted to sex and emotionally abusive (a huge bully). There were times when he'd switch and be completely emotionless also, no empathy, nothing, even when not provoked and was harsh in the way he treated others. Very unstable. That ended in about two months.
Your right. I had known and worked with Mark for nearly 10 years. We had an employee/manager relationship, but we also were musicians, I played guitar and Mark played bass. We jammed together, early on, but he lost interest at some point. He turned out to be one of the weirdest people I've known. We didn't date though, I've been married to the love of my life for 44 years.
Back in the late '70's I dated a nurse who's company I really enjoyed. Six dates and I had an out of town wedding that I asked her to join me on. Time to "do the deed". It was a three night trip and after dinner etc the first night back to the hotel. Intimacy was a nightmare, she laid there like a starfish. The next night after the rehearsal dinner and all the fun that entailed she pulled out rosary beads as it was a Friday night (?). The night after the wedding she fell asleep before I got out of the bathroom.
During my "dating era" nurses were the most fun and best sex partners, except that one. It was a long drive home.
I had a "secret lover" who was so borderline genius. He very physically unattractive. Tall and skinny with this really awkward walk. And he also had Mick Jagger lips. He tutored me in my Statistics and I (think) that I took his virginity.
Also, during summer school (the summer between sophomore and junior year in college) one of my professors (History) invited some of the girls in the class to live at his house for the summer. A few of us lived there for about 1.5 months. He was a lot of fun!
Back in the late '70's I dated a nurse who's company I really enjoyed. Six dates and I had an out of town wedding that I asked her to join me on. Time to "do the deed". It was a three night trip and after dinner etc the first night back to the hotel. Intimacy was a nightmare, she laid there like a starfish. The next night after the rehearsal dinner and all the fun that entailed she pulled out rosary beads as it was a Friday night (?). The night after the wedding she fell asleep before I got out of the bathroom.
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I was in a relationship with a guy on and off for over 3yrs. then officially called it quits several months ago. And no, I don't want him back. EVER. While he appeared to be quite book smart and gone onto college earning 2 degrees, he's probably one of the most socially inept people I've met in my life. I actually feel a bit sorry for him bc he's likely to be one of those people who die alone without anyone noticing right away unless he's still working.
After our break-up, he asked if "we could still be friends" I was like, no bc then our mutual friends will think we're dating again which always happened during the course of our on and off relationship. He wanted his cake and eat it too. And I had to tell him relationships don't work that way. After being intimate with someone, it's hard to go back just being close friends.
We broke up because of his narrow-minded, rigid views towards sex and marriage but he had no qualms about filthy talk and looking at porn. I just couldn't deal with it anymore. He's almost 50 and acts like premarital sex is one of the worst deeds a "faithful Christian" can do, I asked him, what's the difference between the sins, and he couldn't or wouldn't give me an answer.
While we did do some stuff in the bedroom (just not all the way), he try hiding it from everyone else especially from our Christian friends at Church. It just made me feel cheap and our relationship didn't feel authentic. Idk how to put it in words. It just left me with a crappy feeling that he could never take our relationship seriously. For example, we were invited by a Church friend to a weekend Christian conference out of State, he absolutely refused for us to share the same room. I was like, wtf. It would of been a great opportunity for us to spend time together and he blew it because of his hangups and he even asked if our Christian friend would allow us to be in the same room.
I was like, seriously, if we have to sneak around like we're in high school then I'm out. And so, it's been that way since. Although, it sucks, I know I'm stronger and refuse to be in a relationship with a guy who makes me feel cheap and used.
In the late 1990s, prior to the whole; 'two wives in Belize, murder-suspect, escaping the country by faking terminal illness & of course; the run for the presidency in 2016 for the Cyber Party'.
And he's not even the first guy I thought of for this thread. Just the one who required the least amount of typing, lol.
I would have dropped her when at the end of the first date, it was obvious she was using sex as a commodity.
Well, the subject never came up again and certainly wasn't dwelled upon. I more or less dismissed it as first-date jitters.
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