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Old 09-28-2019, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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He is trying to seduce you and he is being very genteel about it.
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This is what I was thinking, but needed other opinions...
......and that can be a good or a bad thing, it all depends......
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Old 09-28-2019, 05:36 PM
 
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......and that can be a good or a bad thing, it all depends......
Do you also think it could mean that he was trying to claim me as his woman or let me know he wants me to be his?
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Old 09-28-2019, 05:58 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Do you also think it could mean that he was trying to claim me as his woman or let me know he wants me to be his?
No he has to plant a flag in your forehead for that.
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Old 09-28-2019, 06:15 PM
 
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Do you also think it could mean that he was trying to claim me as his woman or let me know he wants me to be his?
It means he is interested in you.....just for sex or for companionship and sex or for a relationship and sex.....I am not in a position to figure that out, only you can figure that out.
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Old 09-28-2019, 09:17 PM
 
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The real takeaway here, is that you let him. Most would have to be very attracted to, or comfortable with a guy to let him get his hands all over like that. So, if you're fantasizing "claiming", and "your his woman" I'd say- go for it.
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Old 09-28-2019, 09:36 PM
 
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The real takeaway here, is that you let him. Most would have to be very attracted to, or comfortable with a guy to let him get his hands all over like that. So, if you're fantasizing "claiming", and "your his woman" I'd say- go for it.
I agree. I must have given off the impression that it would be okay with me. (It was). He must have figured out that I'm into him. I thought it was hot. I tried imagining if another man did that to me and I would have never allowed it from anyone else so that's a big clue.
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Old 09-28-2019, 09:47 PM
 
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In my experience it means absolutely nothing unless he backs it up by asking for your number or out on a date.

Men that forward don't tend to waste time if they are interested in something more. For that reason, I wouldn't take the incident too seriously.

He just sounds like a very tactile and flirty man.
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Old 09-28-2019, 10:00 PM
 
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In my experience it means absolutely nothing unless he backs it up by asking for your number or out on a date.

Men that forward don't tend to waste time if they are interested in something more. For that reason, I wouldn't take the incident too seriously.

He just sounds like a very tactile and flirty man.
Maybe. I'll wait and see, but not too long...
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Old 09-28-2019, 10:07 PM
 
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Since you didn't stop him, you indicated you were receptive to his advances. So see if he escalates. How long has he been divorced?
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Old 09-29-2019, 01:47 PM
 
Location: Forests of Maine
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Do you also think it could mean that he was trying to claim me as his woman or let me know he wants me to be his?
He is testing the water.

Stretching the elasticity of your relationship boundaries.

To see how far he can go before you reject him.
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