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Old 10-01-2019, 05:11 AM
 
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are those more painful than bullets?
That depends largely on the Point Of Entry.


If the hatchet gets stuck in your collar-bone, prying it out for a second charge will further inevitably press on the inflicted cut. Some people might find that experience more painful.


I take it you never butchered a pig on a farm, so you're largely unfamiliar with the behavior of bones and flesh under the axe ?






Now wouldn't that make for a wonderful second-date conversation at his home while watching some NFLX procedural ?
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Old 10-01-2019, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
What happened to the money from his 10 years of paychecks? No credit card?

Why would anyone get involved with someone that lives pay to pay?

You made a wise move when you cancelled.
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Old 10-01-2019, 07:58 PM
 
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
He "blew up"?

Buh bye.
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Old 10-01-2019, 08:28 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Interesting that this guy expects women to "trust him", when they've only had a coffee-date conversation with him, nothing more. So out of touch with reality. I wonder, if the OP would run an internet check on him, if any LE records would turn up.

OP, it might be worth running a check on him, just out of curiosity, to see what, exactly, you dodged. Of course, a lot of serial criminals don't make it onto the books, but it might be an interesting experiment.
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Old 10-01-2019, 09:04 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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1. He's hoping to get on some of that booty.
2. He's cheap
3. He's broke.
4. He doesn't value you enough to put more effort in
5. He's socially inept and doesn't get that Netfix and chill isn't everyone's bag.
6. He's lazy.
7. Do I need to go on.........

These items here aren't in of themselves all that bad but when looking at the total it doesn't seem all that good.

There may be 6 equally innocent reasons that he wants you to come to his house.... I just can't think of any right now.
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Old 10-01-2019, 09:09 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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First date was a coffee date.

For the second date he called and arranged for us to watch TV at his house Friday night. He doesn't have netflix or cable so it would just be whatever is on TV. Is this normal for a second date? Would you go to a man's house for the second date if you did not know him that well?
Only if I wanted to have sex with him.
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Old 10-01-2019, 09:22 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
Good move.
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Old 10-01-2019, 09:31 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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So strange when that happens! And it does happen...The guy suddenly blows up and resorts to name calling, as if you’re going to go: “Oh woah! wait a minute ...I’ll be right over, I’m sorry I doubted you!”
Good times.
Right? What a clueless ass.
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Old 10-02-2019, 12:06 AM
 
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Originally Posted by carrcollie View Post
Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.

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how did you meet this whiner, i mean winner?
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Old 10-02-2019, 01:41 AM
 
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Well I wouldn't say the guy's name on the internet, where he lives isn't relevant either.

He did tell me his company is late with his paycheck and that's why he can't afford to go on a real date.(He works for a Fortune 500 company for over ten years now, I can't imagine a company like that is late with paychecks but whatever.) Then he blew up, exploded in anger that I do not "trust" him. Started to launch in with name-calling. But I canceled the date anyway.
Yep, I’d say this guy had less than honorable intentions. What a creep.
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