Is it unfair to date someone when you have lukewarm feelings? (people, nice)
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So I took some of your advice last night. There is this woman that really likes me but she's older and not really that attractive physically at all, but she's a nice lady.
A while back we got drunk and fooled around (not all the way) and I told her that I made a mistake, that I didn't have feelings for her and I was just drunk. This was a while back.
Well last night we went out and we had sex and it actually was quite nice. I still don't have feelings for her but it was just something that happened in the moment and I never would've considered someone like her for that 6 months ago. Also, I was going on a two month drought and needed some.
But I was proud of myself that I gave her a chance even though she's not my type, physically. And it turned out quite enjoyable and she got what she wanted too, she probably feels like she bagged a stud. Win-win for everyone.
So I took some of your advice last night. There is this woman that really likes me but she's older and not really that attractive physically at all, but she's a nice lady.
A while back we got drunk and fooled around (not all the way) and I told her that I made a mistake, that I didn't have feelings for her and I was just drunk. This was a while back.
Well last night we went out and we had sex and it actually was quite nice. I still don't have feelings for her but it was just something that happened in the moment and I never would've considered someone like her for that 6 months ago. Also, I was going on a two month drought and needed some.
But I was proud of myself that I gave her a chance even though she's not my type, physically. And it turned out quite enjoyable and she got what she wanted too, she probably feels like she bagged a stud. Win-win for everyone.
Glad you lowered your standards enough so you could get a piece out of desperation and even did her a favor! My guess is that most posters on here thought you should give RELATIONSHIPS with women you might not typically consider a chance but yeah...good karma for you!
So I took some of your advice last night. There is this woman that really likes me but she's older and not really that attractive physically at all, but she's a nice lady.
A while back we got drunk and fooled around (not all the way) and I told her that I made a mistake, that I didn't have feelings for her and I was just drunk. This was a while back.
Well last night we went out and we had sex and it actually was quite nice. I still don't have feelings for her but it was just something that happened in the moment and I never would've considered someone like her for that 6 months ago. Also, I was going on a two month drought and needed some.
But I was proud of myself that I gave her a chance even though she's not my type, physically. And it turned out quite enjoyable and she got what she wanted too, she probably feels like she bagged a stud. Win-win for everyone.
I've done the same thing multiple times and it always ends with a very hard breakup after her feelings grow for me and mine go nowhere. I seem to never learn.
I think this is the most common scenario. There are always exceptions, but men are either into the woman or they're not. Women can fall in love 6 months later. That doesn't happen nearly as much for men.
Glad you lowered your standards enough so you could get a piece out of desperation and even did her a favor! My guess is that most posters on here thought you should give RELATIONSHIPS with women you might not typically consider a chance but yeah...good karma for you!
Well she started it. She said "do you want me to take care of you?" and I said "yes."
So I took some of your advice last night. There is this woman that really likes me but she's older and not really that attractive physically at all, but she's a nice lady.
A while back we got drunk and fooled around (not all the way) and I told her that I made a mistake, that I didn't have feelings for her and I was just drunk. This was a while back.
Well last night we went out and we had sex and it actually was quite nice. I still don't have feelings for her but it was just something that happened in the moment and I never would've considered someone like her for that 6 months ago. Also, I was going on a two month drought and needed some.
But I was proud of myself that I gave her a chance even though she's not my type, physically. And it turned out quite enjoyable and she got what she wanted too, she probably feels like she bagged a stud. Win-win for everyone.
You have to find your victories in life where you can find them.
Say you don't feel any chemistry with her, that she's a nice person but you don't see any future together, and you're sure she could find someone better
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