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Old 10-25-2019, 10:15 PM
 
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Just want to tell you that you saw the BS all along and was right. The truth came out after 2 weeks because I forced it to come out tonight when I noticed she was in my area. lol
what did your final text say?
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Old 10-25-2019, 10:17 PM
 
Location: The ghetto
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Can you show us the rude message you sent her?
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Old 10-25-2019, 10:22 PM
 
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what did your final text say?
It was the kind of rude text said forced her to reveal her true feelings and now I can move on. Still kind of weird that she never blocked me.

Her last text to me was......."you can kick rocks with open toe shoes on" lol That was funny
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Old 10-26-2019, 03:37 AM
 
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I am not a fan of the slow blow off the way she did. Mostly, as with you, many guys Don't Get It. How many different ways does a person need to say I am not that into you before he gets it? Where is your self respect that someone who does not want to make time for you is still someone you are pursuing vigorously? Do I need to write a dating manual? For some people, apparently so.

Take your licks. Move on.
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Old 10-26-2019, 03:38 AM
 
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I know to do that now. That was my first time ever getting a sick text after a 1st date and now know what it means
It is not the sick text. People do, actually, get sick. It is cutting bait when it is clearly not working.
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Old 10-26-2019, 08:19 AM
 
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It was the kind of rude text said forced her to reveal her true feelings and now I can move on. Still kind of weird that she never blocked me.
Why don't you just tell us what you said to her? Why are you deliberately being so cagey about it?
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Old 10-26-2019, 08:39 AM
 
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Why don't you just tell us what you said to her? Why are you deliberately being so cagey about it?
Cause it'll reinforce that he's terrible with women.
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Old 10-26-2019, 08:59 AM
 
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Cause it'll reinforce that he's terrible with women.
This.

And that he probably texted her everyday, 10x a day demanding answers.

Considering the last one blocked him before she even got home from their first date, maybe time to look within

Anyway, how did he NOTICE "she was in my area" ??????
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Old 10-26-2019, 09:15 AM
 
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Show us the text you sent to her that FINALLY got a reaction from her!!

(It may very well reveal what you did/ went wrong)
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Old 10-26-2019, 09:58 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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To all those who thought OP and I were paranoid for considering the possibility she was lying......guess I was right eh?
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