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Well, isn't that what women would want anyway? Namely, to keep all stable, not-so-attractive men safely hidden away, out of sight, out of mind, until they decide to settle down with someone stable.
1) "Women" don't act in a bloc.
2) Anyone who would sequester himself away because he can't interact with fellow humans isn't stable.
I think it would cause guys to shy away from dating for two reasons:
1) It's not so much that awareness of sexual assault is threatening to men. It's the fear that comes with feeling like the mere accusation can damage someone's reputation. And that's not just a fear of being lied on, but even a misunderstanding that a woman feels the need to share publicly. As difficult as it can be for women to come forward, it can be just as difficult to talk your way out of an accusation as well.
2) Men have to make time and space in their lives for dating. I know I do. I have a full time job and a kid, so I don't just have time to sit on dating apps texting women for the hell of it. If I try to date, it has to be because I think there's something there. I just wonder if some guys who are more in their dating prime feel its worth it. Again: just an open-ended question.
It depends on what you're referring to. A woman telling a flat-out lie about sexual assault may be pretty rare, but that doesn't mean it was assault because she said so. I'd worry more about a woman I tried to make a move with who wasn't ready claiming after the fact that I tried forcing myself on her than I would a woman I never dated making up an accusation out of whole cloth.
One would think that one of the lessons learned would be to make sure the woman IS into the action. You can ask. "Do you like this?" "Are we on the same page here?" "I'd like to do blah blah blah do you feel the same?" It's NOT that hard. Assuming you're a decent guy, you are already looking for signals that you have the green light to proceed. How hard is it REALLY, to make sure the woman is totally on board? Can you not tell if a woman is ready or not? If you truly CAN'T tell, than ask. It's not hard.
2) Anyone who would sequester himself away because he can't interact with fellow humans isn't stable.
I'm using the word "stable" in its Red Pill definition. That's someone who can provide a good lifestyle on an ongoing basis, but doesn't excite women emotionally.
I'm using the word "stable" in its Red Pill definition. That's someone who can provide a good lifestyle on an ongoing basis, but doesn't excite women emotionally.
The thing is... this massive concern of the unavailability of the men who are troubled by metoo just is not happening. There is no problem here. And for them, this is a problem.
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