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Old 10-29-2019, 09:37 AM
 
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There was this girl I saw at volleyball on Sunday who I’ve seen one other time in the past and we had a small interaction then (that was months ago) I approached her as she was sitting down, put my hand on her shoulderand started some small talk, mentioned how I hardly noticed her because she lost a lot of weight and looks really fit. Long story short, at the end of the night I was sitting down with friends and I saw her get up and start approaching me. We talked for a few minutes, she was asking me some questions about myself and I got her number. I texted her my number and she replied 2 hours after she left creating conversation via text. I got straight to the point and asked her out for drinks. She gave a very low interest response (I’m really busy with exams, maybe another time).. which I wasn’t expecting. I left the ball in her court and said to contact me when she has some free time and good luck with exams and walked away. Do you think it was something I said in person? I’m just shocked by the response, I felt like she had a lot of interest and we had a lot of things in common
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Old 10-29-2019, 09:40 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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You just put your hand on her back? Wow, you would not get my number!!!

Well, wait and see if she contacts you.
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Old 10-29-2019, 09:41 AM
 
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You just put your hand on her back? Wow, you would not get my number!!!

Well, wait and see if she contacts you.
It was actually her shoulder, not her back lol
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Old 10-29-2019, 09:41 AM
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There was this girl I saw at volleyball on Sunday who I’ve seen one other time in the past. I approached her as she was sitting down, put my hand on her shoulderand started some small talk, mentioned how I hardly noticed her because she lost a lot of weight and looks really fit. Long story short, at the end of the night I was sitting down with friends and I saw her get up and start approaching me. We talked for a few minutes, she was asking me some questions about myself and I got her number. I texted her my number and she replied 2 hours after she left creating conversation via text. I got straight to the point and asked her out for drinks. She gave a very low interest response (I’m really busy with exams, maybe another time).. which I wasn’t expecting. I left the ball in her court and said to contact me when she has some free time and good luck with exams and walked away. Do you think it was something I said in person? I’m just shocked by the response, I felt like she had a lot of interest and we had a lot of things in common
Maybe invite her to the next volleyball game? She might not drink.
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Old 10-29-2019, 09:42 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Only she knows. And, it doesn't really matter.


Don't spend any more time thinking about it. Just move on. You asked. She said no (listen to her). The end.


(Its perplexing to me why we have so much, well, interesting syntax such as "creating conversation via text" on here lately.)
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Old 10-29-2019, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You hardly noticed her because she’s lost a lot of weight??
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Old 10-29-2019, 10:27 AM
 
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That makes no sense.
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Old 10-29-2019, 10:27 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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She rejected you. End of story. Keep it moving.
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Old 10-29-2019, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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Sounds like she is not interested. Keep it moving. You did right by leaving the ball in her court though!
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Old 10-29-2019, 10:32 AM
 
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(Its perplexing to me why we have so much, well, interesting syntax such as "creating conversation via text" on here lately.)
You mean like this?

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She gave a very low interest response
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