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Old 11-03-2019, 11:43 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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I just cant understand someone getting bent out of shape ...........

I'm guessing that this is the central issue that is really the problem.

 
Old 11-03-2019, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Like I said in the future if someone suddenly sends me a text when I didnt expect to hear from the person until the next day I will respond the next day. Regardless of what I was doing it was someone I didnt have a convo with yet so I am supposed to stop what I was doing instantly so I can call her? Honestly I wasn't expecting to talk to someone new until sunday because I know people go out on friday or saturday
You can't have all these unwritten rules about who contacts who when and then be surprised when someone gets frustrated because they can't decipher your unwritten rules.

Do you not understand how human interaction works?

When you contact someone on a dating app, presumably you want to talk to them. She had tried a few times and you put her off, so she got fed up with you. I don't blame her a bit.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:02 PM
 
Location: NMB, SC
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Right next time dont respond
That's right. If you can't engage at that moment then don't..especially if you engage only to say gimme 20 minutes.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:08 PM
 
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You can't have all these unwritten rules about who contacts who when and then be surprised when someone gets frustrated because they can't decipher your unwritten rules.

Do you not understand how human interaction works?

When you contact someone on a dating app, presumably you want to talk to them. She had tried a few times and you put her off, so she got fed up with you. I don't blame her a bit.
after 2 times during a friday and saturday? I thought since she knew the weekend was here that it was a strong possibility we wouldnt be available on friday and saturday.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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after 2 times during a friday and saturday? I thought since she knew the weekend was here that it was a strong possibility we wouldnt be available on friday and saturday.
If you can't make time for a 10-minute phone call in 2 days then you won't be good at dating anyone.

Were you on the Playstation? Was that it?
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:13 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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If you aren't free. Get off the app. Duh.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:17 PM
 
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If you can't make time for a 10-minute phone call in 2 days then you won't be good at dating anyone.

Were you on the Playstation? Was that it?

I was actually adding up my winnings on a gambling site and was going to call when I was done
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I was actually adding up my winnings on a gambling site and was going to call when I was done
lol I knew you were up to no good.

See what that midnight gambling cost you? Nice job.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:21 PM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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Like I said in the future if someone suddenly sends me a text when I didnt expect to hear from the person until the next day I will respond the next day. Regardless of what I was doing it was someone I didnt have a convo with yet so I am supposed to stop what I was doing instantly so I can call her? Honestly I wasn't expecting to talk to someone new until sunday because I know people go out on friday or saturday
if i wanted to date her, i would stop what i was doing and focus on her; if i wasnt interested in her, i would tell her to wait up until 2:00 a.m. at nite.
 
Old 11-03-2019, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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What exactly were you doing at 1 am that required you to ask her to wait 20 minutes to talk?
What difference does it make? If a woman can’t wait 20 minutes, she don’t need to be trying to date.
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