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I actually have no idea if she was faithful. Sometimes we’d go through hard times, break up but still be sleeping with each other exclusively, then I found out she was at the park in some guy’s Camaro banging because I followed her. I passed that as a technicality if we weren’t officially back together but while we were together a different year, she said she went to Vegas with some girlfriends when I found a picture of another man. She said nothing happened but years later admitted she slept with him. I guess there’s history there and I’ve trusted her too much, never snooping. Plus she was always interrogating me, asking me about all the women I work with etc. I was always so distracted by that that I never dreamed she would be guilty of all this. I recently took her to Catalina Island on a 3 day trip. We were so happy. Looking back through messages I see she messaged the other man because he accused her of being in Catalina with me, she replied that she was in Catalina with her girlfriends :-( i guess she has no conscience whatsoever.
OP, you should read the allegory entitled "The tale of the turtle and scorpion". She has shown her true character, accept it lest you get stung.
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Yet she keeps telling me she wants to raise a family together and simply cannot lose me.
Were you fool enough to stay with her you would be insane not to question the paternity of every child born and equally insane to reside in a state that presumes the husband is the father of all children born in a marriage and does not allow the presumption to be challenged.
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... and I have no friends. But my friend reminds me I’m young and ......
Clearly you have at least one friend. So quit saying you have no friends!
And I agree with the others that you need to BLOCK your EX girlfriend from contacting you anymore. What's the point of listening to anything she has to say? From what you've posted, this other boyfriend wasn't the only time she cheated on you. She cheated in Vegas with some guy and she also cheated with some random dude in a Camaro, too. At least 3 different guys that you know of, there are probably more. Stop letting her contact you and just block her already!
It sounds as though you got together when you were both pretty young, and she wasn't ready for monogamy.
She's still not ready for a monogamous relationship. If that is what you want, she is not the one, no matter what she says.
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