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Old 11-22-2019, 09:29 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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It's yet another moment to take a breath and ask yourself how important this particular thing is in the grand scheme.
Sage advice.
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Old 11-22-2019, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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Sage advice.



It is. But I am curious to know why you're dodging my question to your first initial post?
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Old 11-22-2019, 09:44 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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It is. But I am curious to know why you're dodging my question to your first initial post?
I'm not dodging anything. You have a serious problem with your temper. That's why you are having problems with everyone in your life.

It's not about OCD or possible autism.
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Old 11-22-2019, 10:24 AM
 
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I think your GF secretly wants you to get a backbone and banter back at these fools.
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Old 11-22-2019, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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I'm not dodging anything. You have a serious problem with your temper. That's why you are having problems with everyone in your life.

It's not about OCD or possible autism.



Well it sure took you long enough to say that LOL. I don't have a serious temper. Her temper is way worse than mine, and she even said that herself. Also, everyone in my life? That's funny, because MY actual friends and I have no issues, and the same for my family.
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Old 11-22-2019, 10:33 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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I think your GF secretly wants you to get a backbone and banter back at these fools.

I have bantered back at them before. The problem is some of the "jokes" they say are tired and old, and I get a vibe that they're using those jokes as a cover up to let me know how they truly feel.

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Old 11-22-2019, 11:09 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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I'm not dodging anything. You have a serious problem with your temper. That's why you are having problems with everyone in your life.

It's not about OCD or possible autism.
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Well it sure took you long enough to say that LOL. I don't have a serious temper. Her temper is way worse than mine, and she even said that herself. Also, everyone in my life? That's funny, because MY actual friends and I have no issues, and the same for my family.
You can't fix a problem that you refuse to acknowledge.

I'm going to leave it at that, as you're clearly not looking to have an honest discussion.
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Old 11-22-2019, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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You can't fix a problem that you refuse to acknowledge.

I'm going to leave it at that, as you're clearly not looking to have an honest discussion.



I just want to know what makes you think I have a serious temper. Yeah, I get angry, as most people do. But I don't go into a violent rage or do something insanely over the top due to being angry.
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Old 11-22-2019, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Boulder, CO
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A thought that's been buggin' me here, in the back of my mind.


Among your girlfriend's friends, is there a guy that wants to be with her, and the insults are "the collective" 's means of subtle sabotage ? Trying to drive a wedge between the two of you ?
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Old 11-22-2019, 11:49 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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I just want to know what makes you think I have a serious temper. Yeah, I get angry, as most people do. But I don't go into a violent rage or do something insanely over the top due to being angry.
Some comments you've made:

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I snapped at one of her friends this past weekend
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I can be sensitive, and overly defensive. I ended up cussing one of them out when I felt like I was being attacked, and they decided it was best to not include me in anything anymore.
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It sucks seeing other friends I used to hang out with still having a solid crew to do all the fun things we did. Seeing them take vacations, and wedding photos crushes me.
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I snapped and got him on the ground and just started wailing on him, and decked the principal and school officer in the face when they both tried to restrain me.
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I was ready to explode. She told me to calm down
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I also told her the next time Greg disrespects me like that, he gets one good warning. After that, it's a fist to the face.
I can probably find more, but this should be enough to get my point across.
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