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So true. I didn’t love her, but had feelings for her, and our sexual connection and chemistry was amazing. I think the sexual bond and chemistry is where most of this is coming from for me. It’s just that with this being so hard for me, makes me question if I really did make the right decision, even though logically I know I did. I had strong enough feelings for this to still be making me struggle. Relationships can mess with logical choices and your head sometimes.
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Originally Posted by Berteau
Yeah. I've been struggling a bit more than I expected. Posting about it helps me in a few ways. Knowing that she wasn't really in love with me helps me move on, and helps me learn something about people/relationships I can take with me moving forward(confusing love with lust/neediness is new to me). Sometimes I have trouble getting over things in general, but never this much trouble in a relationship. Knowing she moved on so fast made it harder.
You seem super young if confusing love & lust is new to you.......maybe you should see a therapist & explore your own stuff that you are making a big thing out of a text from somebody you broke up with & she is with somebodynew.....
So true. I didn’t love her, but had feelings for her, and our sexual connection and chemistry was amazing. I think the sexual bond and chemistry is where most of this is coming from for me. It’s just that with this being so hard for me, makes me question if I really did make the right decision, even though logically I know I did. I had strong enough feelings for this to still be making me struggle. Relationships can mess with logical choices and your head sometimes.
No. You make them a mess.
You ended the relationship and you're upset she moved on. Ok.
Her way of being "in love" might be different from what you know. But if she jumped to another relationship immediately, then she might be the type who can't handle being alone.
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