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Old 11-25-2019, 09:30 AM
 
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An ex boyfriend from high school and I had reconnected a few years ago, but I was uncomfortable with his relationship with his ex. Reasons for this, there have been pictures circulating on FB of them both. He says the pictures were from 5 years ago, but they are not labeled as TBT. And in one picture, he was straddling her from behind. I asked him to take the pictures down, but he refused. I also caught him in a lie when he text me a picture of his new grandchild, but he didn’t realize he sent it to me and his ex. And then lied about it and said it was sent to his niece. I called him on it, but he gave no explanation. When we were in high school, he cheated on me. He is a musician, and always tried to make excuses for his friendships with his ‘fan base’ mostly women. And he never apologized when he was wrong. I have recently cut off all communication with him, and unfriended him on FB.
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Old 11-25-2019, 09:34 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Thanks for sharing.
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Old 11-25-2019, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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An ex boyfriend from high school and I had reconnected a few years ago, but I was uncomfortable with his relationship with his ex. Reasons for this, there have been pictures circulating on FB of them both. He says the pictures were from 5 years ago, but they are not labeled as TBT. And in one picture, he was straddling her from behind. I asked him to take the pictures down, but he refused. I also caught him in a lie when he text me a picture of his new grandchild, but he didn’t realize he sent it to me and his ex. And then lied about it and said it was sent to his niece. I called him on it, but he gave no explanation. When we were in high school, he cheated on me. He is a musician, and always tried to make excuses for his friendships with his ‘fan base’ mostly women. And he never apologized when he was wrong. I have recently cut off all communication with him, and unfriended him on FB.
Sounds like the right thing to do.
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Old 11-25-2019, 10:00 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why are you even bothering with this flake? Move on.
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Old 11-25-2019, 12:17 PM
 
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Sounds pretty open and shut. He's an ex and you cut him off! Way to go!
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Old 11-25-2019, 12:48 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Good job. Now block him everywhere and keep it that way.
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Old 11-30-2019, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Texas
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I have recently cut off all communication with him, and unfriended him on FB.
Smart move. I would have done the same.

Also, I've been there, done that with the musician guys. Yes, they do have a fan base and it's a problem.
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Old 12-01-2019, 10:41 PM
 
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so he dry humped his "ex" in front of the world wide web, while he was with you, and lied about it. Sounds like a keeper. Not.
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Old 12-02-2019, 12:57 PM
 
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She wasn’t his ex.

One of you was the side chick.

You did the right thing.
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