Is she interested again?

[NemesisLQ]

Originally Posted by ADogNamedSam

OP I think you derived a valuable lesson from your old dealings with her.


The less interest you show her, the more favorable she will feel towards you. And as you learned the opposite also holds.

Like I said, this interest she’s been showing me has been in very small increments over the course of the past year. Her viewing my IG stories without following me has been recent (over the past couple weeks). I’ll just stay low until she contacts me then attempt to set a date with her.

[K12144]

She's a coworker. Just say no. Especially since you've found out what happens when it goes wrong... uncomfortable time at work, all day, every day.

[bebe182]

Ask her out again, you’ve got nothing to lose. If she says she’ll get back to you don’t ask again.

Either she’s interested and waiting for you to ask again or she misses the attention, either way you won’t know unless you ask

[Okey Dokie]

Why all the games? Say to her “We didn’t get off to a good start before. I’d like to try again.” Her response will tell you all you need to know.

If she’s not interested....let it drop, completely.

[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by Okey Dokie

Why all the games? Say to her “We didn’t get off to a good start before. I’d like to try again.” Her response will tell you all you need to know.

If she’s not interested....let it drop, completely.

This is good and it may work

[shelato]

Originally Posted by ADogNamedSam

OP I think you derived a valuable lesson from your old dealings with her.


The less interest you show her, the more favorable she will feel towards you. And as you learned the opposite also holds.

Originally Posted by Okey Dokie

Why all the games? Say to her “We didn’t get off to a good start before. I’d like to try again.” Her response will tell you all you need to know.

If she’s not interested....let it drop, completely.

I agree with both of these ideas. The best way to figure out where you stand with her is to ask her out, but if you are texting her too much you can come across as needy and scare her off.

[stanley-88888888]

Originally Posted by bebe182

Ask her out again, you’ve got nothing to lose...

except his job.

[NemesisLQ]

I see this girl maybe once every other week. We work in entirely different departments

[El Chingaso]

Originally Posted by NemesisLQ

By continuing to text and pursue her instead of giving her space to get back to me. I showed my interest by asking her out for a drink. Any texting beyond that just kills attraction and mystery which is what I did. I Double texted her a couple times. I was clueless but I’m not the same man I was then

You’re still not a man.

[ADogNamedSam]

Originally Posted by El Chingaso

You’re still not a man.

Cruel and uncalled-for.