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Old 12-15-2019, 01:02 AM
 
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Hello..

So.. I was talking to a girl back in may and we dated a bit.. Hooked up and had a good time. She seemed super interested and everything, but i think I showed a bit of neediness when hanging out with her.. Anyways.. In July she told me that she's coming out of relationship, cannot be dating now etc blabla.. I told her thats ok, text me ifnyou ever change your mind.

It has been dead silent from july. No liking Facebook, no snapchat, not even watching mystory, i figured probably shed deleted me by now.

And suddenly yesterday at 8 o clock at night she send me a snap from her hotel room of a drink, writing: out on the town today! (my town!) she lives an hour away..

She then sends another at 12 o clock, just picture of a drink and the bar location..


I didnt open or text back before today morning bc what the heck, I havent heard from her for so long + I was not in the bars yesterday!

Not sure if this is just some random thing or if shes checking the waters.. Its just so when it has been dead silence in 5 months.
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Old 12-15-2019, 01:15 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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What’s your question?
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Old 12-15-2019, 01:21 AM
 
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What’s your question?

Haha, right. I was actually wondering what shes thinking.. If shes trying to establish contact again and if I should respond or write back her at all?

Id love to date her again, but Im not sure why she suddenly snaps me now after all this time..
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Old 12-15-2019, 02:04 AM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Drunk texting....
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Old 12-15-2019, 02:16 AM
 
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Drunk texting....

Could be, but she wasnt drunk at 7-8 o clock..
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Old 12-15-2019, 03:29 AM
 
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women are like cats ...they will come to you …. you cant push it ..

she knows who you are..... you can reply ..be positive...short n sweet
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Old 12-15-2019, 03:56 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Could be, but she wasnt drunk at 7-8 o clock..

She might want some loving...
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Old 12-15-2019, 06:14 AM
 
Location: Tricity
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Bored probably. Wanted some drinking buddy. You probably won't hear from her for another few months.
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Old 12-15-2019, 06:49 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Whatever it was, you missed it.
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Old 12-15-2019, 06:54 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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Why are you asking us instead of her, just reply "hey whats up" if you want to feel her out about her motives. Is it really this hard ?
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