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Old 12-16-2019, 10:56 PM
 
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Hey all.

Just wondering what you all think of this scenario.

I worked with this lady for about a year. When we first started working together, I overheard a conversation with other coworkers where she was talking about how cute I am.

Over time, she started asking me to come out with the rest of the coworkers during outings (I never did after getting into hot water over this kind of thing in the past) and would be disappointed when I didn't when I wouldn't go out.

She left the job a few months ago and asked for my number. She texted me randomly a few days ago and asked if I wanted to hang out.

I invited her out to Top Golf (which is pretty much drinking and golfing). She agreed and suggested that we meet up at 11pm. She then told me that she'll be coming alone and wanted to know if I was coming alone too.

I've been out of the dating game for a little while, but this sounds like she's interested in more than friendship.

What do you all think? Am I looking too far into this?
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:18 PM
 
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Don't date married people. Don't be an accomplice to cheating. Do you want to be THAT guy?
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:31 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You're going into hot water, AGAIN. Be true to your nick and don't fool with a married woman no matter how cute you think you are.

BTW: a married woman who suggested a rendezvous at 11 PM? Did she sneak out of the bedroom after her hubby fell asleep?
Is that the kind of woman you want to date? A cheater?
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Old 12-16-2019, 11:56 PM
 
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Oh yes she wants more than a friendship. Could be for sex only. Hubby might not be doing it for her anymore.

You don't need an angry husband coming after you. Does she have kids too? If so, that would be sad if the kids found out.

Move on to single women.
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Old 12-17-2019, 04:40 AM
 
Location: Bel Air, California
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What's her handicap?
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Old 12-17-2019, 04:45 AM
 
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You can't possibly be this desperate that you'd actually go after a married woman, are you? That's pretty pathetic considering how many single women are available out there. You just don't want to put in the work to find one.
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Old 12-17-2019, 04:50 AM
 
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Bad situation.
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Old 12-17-2019, 05:58 AM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Just say NO next time she invites you out. There are a couple of recent threads here from men that "dated" a married woman. Read them.

Do you really want to be the person that sees a married woman? That's not really what I would call a distinguished gentleman.
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Old 12-17-2019, 06:42 AM
 
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Your username is TheDistinguishedGentleman yet you want to pursue a married woman.

Really???

Seriously???

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Old 12-17-2019, 07:49 AM
 
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She doesn't sound too happily married, that's for sure.
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