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Old 12-17-2019, 10:05 AM
 
Location: (six-cent-dix-sept)
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what if he made a faux pas and suggested his or her place. would he see her again. i'm always afraid of asking that too soon ?
is it salvageable. is it like suggesting roti and she being like 'no thanx' and suggest something else; or, would most girls be disgusted and block further communication.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:09 AM
 
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What is "roti"? Something dirty?
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:18 AM
 
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What is "roti"? Something dirty?
maybe it should be. (urban dictionary <@).

its flat bread goat stew made in trinidad. i randomly picked it for my hypothetical since its not common and many mite want to pass on it.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:27 AM
 
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Your post is still confusing.

What exactly are you asking?
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:30 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What does it matter when it happens with other people?
Sometimes first date, sometimes never, often enough something in between.
I can't fathom how a poll on this helps anyone.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:32 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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There's really no such thing as "most" with this type of stuff. It's an illusion because honestly you will only deal with a handful of the opposite sex. So it doesn't matter what "most" people would do. You gotta figure that out cuz.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:34 AM
 
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i asked this question in another thread:
is it salvageable. is it like suggesting roti and she being like 'no thanx' and suggest something else; or, would most girls be disgusted and block further communication.
I imagine that would be moving pretty fast for a lot of women. If a woman suggested alone time at her place or my place on the first date, I would be uncomfortable and I'm a guy. Even on the third date, I wouldn't be ready with the "three dates and then sex" deal.

But different people men and women move at different speeds. And I have no idea on "most" either.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:34 AM
 
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There's no such thing as "most girls" unless you're looking for actual statistical data. You need to figure out what the woman you're with will do or does when you suggest things.
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Old 12-17-2019, 10:57 AM
 
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maybe it should be. (urban dictionary <@).

its flat bread goat stew made in trinidad. i randomly picked it for my hypothetical since its not common and many mite want to pass on it.
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Old 12-17-2019, 11:00 AM
 
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OP, I think in part it depends on the circumstances and means of communication. If you suggest this as a first date to someone you're in the process of "meeting" on OLD, you'd probably get cut off. Even if you suggested it to someone you met IRL as a first date, probably most women would back away, a few would suggest an alternative, and a very few would be ok with it. If you suggested it as a 3rd date, definitely YMMV, but depending on how well you were clicking with the woman, it could work. IDK.

Why do you ask?
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