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I'm like anyone else and have sexual needs and desires that need satisfied.
You know what? They don't NEED to be satisfied. Or more to the point, no one ELSE NEEDS to satisfy them.
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And I have had more than one woman who I didn't pay directly (everybody pays for sex one way or another, either with time, effort and money or just money, but that's another thread) and convinced to sleep with me on my own merits, but I felt like a fake and a player the entire time because I couldn't be myself and was just going through the motions because "that's what you're supposed to do." But none of it felt genuine or satisfying. At least with escorts I could be my real self and there was no deception or dishonesty on either of our parts.
Nope it makes the world stupid and dishonest. At least I'm honest about myself and who I am, I'm "just being myself" and the world won't accept me. Because that's not what they want.
They want to be lied to, be told what they want to hear and what makes them feel good, not what's truthful. The world runs on BS and the vast majority of people can't handle the truth.
Dude, there are boards specifically intended for this PUA, red pill ****. Go there.
You know what? They don't NEED to be satisfied. Or more to the point, no one ELSE NEEDS to satisfy them.
Well, now you know.
If you think your hand is even in the same ballpark as being with a woman, I can't help you. There's no comparison. Sure, I don't NEED a woman to satisfy me, but I don't NEED a car to get to Chicago either. I can just walk, because that's the same, right?
And what's your take on that? What advice do you have.
That's not the same as "dating" and "relationships," which is what you supposedly were discussing at the start of this thread.
If you were being fake, then it wasn't on your own merits.
Sounds like a plan. Pick one and go with it. Based on your replies here, a sex worker is the obvious choice.
Are you serious? I've spent 8 pages going around in circles about this.
The main traits you show here on CD, unwavering pompous arrogance, unfounded conceit and disregard for the feelings of others, are not conducive to interacting with other people. So I would start there.
Those are moods. Your sense of self should be consistent even when your moods change.
I can guarantee that my self does change with each "mood" and that I will react and behave differently in each situation. If I'm running late and in a hurry to get to work many people will think I drive carelessly or like an arsehole but that is actually when I'm most in control and concentrated.
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a person's essential being that distinguishes them from others, especially considered as the object of introspection or reflexive action.
If you think your hand is even in the same ballpark as being with a woman, I can't help you. There's no comparison. Sure, I don't NEED a woman to satisfy me, but I don't NEED a car to get to Chicago either. I can just walk, because that's the same, right?
You don't go to Chicago. You take a train. That is a FACT. No one. No one OWES you your so-called need. NO ONE. That is just a FACT. Don't like it? Tough ****. You will not DIE from lack of sex. And no one is going to want to volunteer to have sex with someone like you. As you have experienced. Yes, it is you. So I am going with ... find a totally new you in there somewhere that is not so .... evil.
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And what's your take on that? What advice do you have.
I can guarantee that my self does change with each "mood" and that I will react and behave differently in each situation. If I'm running late and in a hurry to get to work many people will think I drive carelessly or like an arsehole but that is actually when I'm most in control and concentrated.
It's not the same thing. You're using terms incorrectly.
You don't go to Chicago. You take a train. That is a FACT. No one. No one OWES you your so-called need. NO ONE. That is just a FACT. Don't like it? Tough ****. You will not DIE from lack of sex. And no one is going to want to volunteer to have sex with someone like you. As you have experienced. Yes, it is you. So I am going with ... find a totally new you in there somewhere that is not so .... evil.
My advice to you would get me perma-banned.
What makes me "evil"? I have the same desires as any other human being on planet earth, the desire to be accepted, loved, to have my sexual needs met, etc.
And what about my analogy don't you get? I don't NEED someone else to satisfy me sexually, just like I don't NEED to go out to eat when I can cook the same thing at home, or I don't NEED to take my car when I can just walk, but one is just better. Is that so hard to understand?
Secondly, it sounds like you are letting your emotions run amok if you can't control yourself enough to state exactly what you think of me. You may think I'm vile and disgusting, reprehensible, etc and wouldn't care if I died tomorrow, but you should at least be able to list concrete reasons WHY I'm that way other than "Ehh you're evil!"
All calling someone evil does is dehumanize them and to disregard their motivations.
What makes me "evil"? I have the same desires as any other human being on planet earth, the desire to be accepted, loved, to have my sexual needs met, etc.
Deciding to take what you think you "need" regardless of the HUMAN at the other end of the "transaction" through deceit. Yup. Evil.
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And what about my analogy don't you get? I don't NEED someone else to satisfy me sexually, just like I don't NEED to go out to eat when I can cook the same thing at home, or I don't NEED to take my car when I can just walk, but one is just better. Is that so hard to understand?
Secondly, it sounds like you are letting your emotions run amok if you can't control yourself enough to state exactly what you think of me.
Deciding to take what you think you "need" regardless of the HUMAN at the other end of the "transaction" through deceit. Yup. Evil.
Yet, strangely, I did control myself. Huh.
I'm saying why not just tell me exactly what you think of me, where I'm wrong and what I need to do to change. No name calling or insults, just honesty.
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I'm saying why not just tell me exactly what you think of me, where I'm wrong and what I need to do to change. No name calling or insults, just honesty.
You have been told multiple times.
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