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If I was you I would say I was coincidentally in that mall because there is that special store X that has the special X you really want/need. You then saw her and felt like an idiot being there so you were hiding, wondering if you should say hi or not when they discovered you.
That's what I'm most worried about. Now I'm freaking out that she's going to go back to her ex over this.
You're all worried about this ex without understanding how stupid and weird the stuff YOU did is. Even if she never got back with the ex, she should end things with you.
If this is real, you have some serious insecurity you need to deal with. But it's SO lame it can't be real.
Yesterday my girlfriend was going out of town to visit some friends from her old high school. She was upfront and told me that one of the guys in the group was an ex-boyfriend and she told me that there are no more romantic feelings and that they're on good terms as friends. She told me because she wanted to be honest and get everything out in the open, but I didn't feel reassured by that. I was freaking out about the possibility of her ex wooing her back and her dumping me for him.
She left and not long after, I got in my car and drove to the town that she was visiting. It was a two hour drive and when I first arrived in the town, I had no idea where to look for her, but then I remembered her mentioning that she was meeting with her friends at their form in the local University and that's where I went. I drove around the parking lot until I found my girlfriend's car and parked nearby to watch. The group eventually came out and there was five of them, three girls and two guys. They got in another car and I followed them to the mall.
I followed their group around, staying behind enough to where I could see them without them noticing. I had made sure to wear an old hoody that my girlfriend had never seen before and they hadn't noticed me yet. I followed them around various shops and when they sat down to eat in the food court, I did something very stupid: I pulled my hood tight around my face and I quickly walked by their table to try and make out what they were saying. My girlfriend couldn't tell it was me as I walked by and I could only make out them talking about some TV show.
Later, they all sat down in a rest area and I was crouched behind a decorative plant to watch them. But one of the guys in the group saw me peeking out and he pointed at me. The others noticed and I just ran out. I got in my car and began to drive home to cover my tracks and come up with an alibi, but my girlfriend called me and she knew it was me. She asked me why I was following her and I told her that I didn't want her hanging out with her ex, but she called me "pathetic" and she hung up on me. Me and her have only been dating for a few months and I'm really worried about our relationship now. How do I fix this?
You do two things:
1. You let this poor girl go.
2. You seek therapy.
You drove TWO HOURS and stalked her. In a massively creepy, scary and dangerous way. GOD I hope she does not cave to whatever weird excuses and "reasons" you give for this.
LOL, imagine how those friends of hers are talking and laughing about you now. Especially the ex boyfriend. There is no way she can go back to you without losing all kinds of respect from her peers.
Thank God for friends who help you see the absurdity in things!
If I was you I would say I was coincidentally in that mall because there is that special store X that has the special X you really want/need. You then saw her and felt like an idiot being there so you were hiding, wondering if you should say hi or not when they discovered you.
You're all worried about this ex without understanding how stupid and weird the stuff YOU did is. Even if she never got back with the ex, she should end things with you.
If this is real, you have some serious insecurity you need to deal with. But it's SO lame it can't be real.
Premise = B-
Execution = F
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