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Old 01-02-2020, 03:30 PM
 
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Well, your name implies what might be wrong. The Grandeur.


But try a matchmaking service.

 
Old 01-02-2020, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Kocaeli, Turkey
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Originally Posted by Parnassia View Post
YOU said they want kids. YOU said most are religious. YOU said you don't care or want sex. What YOU want is not compatible with what THEY want. YOU say you hate women. You sound very inflexible and conceited. Why would anyone be attracted to this?
Not for relationship. That is for marriage.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 03:34 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I did try hard in the past and I lost my hope.

When I try to talk to someone from opposite sex, she ignores me.

In Turkey, that is actually a lot better if you dont want sex as a male person who is not married because most women won't. So I will not either for the woman's sake but thats not enough.

All I want is a relationship. And even this is too much for me to want.

It is actually considered bad if a man wants relationship for sex where I live.

Who said my sex drive is low? [Snip.] Thats not the issue. I just want a relationship. Someone in my life is what I want.
If you don't want sex or kids just someone in your life - get a dog. A cute dog! Dogs tend to have unconditional love and devotion to their owners. They also improve sociability. They are brilliant conversation starters and many first-time dog owners are genuinely amazed by how many new people they meet. A dog might also help you get a date.
Dogs help prevent loneliness and isolation, as well...

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Old 01-02-2020, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Kocaeli, Turkey
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If you don't want sex or kids just someone in your life - get a dog. Dogs tend to have unconditional love and devotion to their owners. They also improve sociability. They are brilliant conversation starters and many first-time dog owners are genuinely amazed by how many new people they meet. A dog might also help you get a date.
Dogs help prevent loneliness and isolation, as well...

Relationship is not for sex.Thats how people think in the west, I suppose?

A dog's place is different. A woman's place is different.

Comparation doesnt make sense.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 03:39 PM
 
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Life is not going to be perfectly okay if you find someone. Attitude is everything. Relationships are a lot of hard work!!!! So, if you can't make the effort to improve yourself now, you wouldn't do well in a relationship. End of story.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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Relationship is not for sex.Thats how people think in the west, I suppose?

I want to have a relationship with a woman. I want a woman in my life.

A dog's place is different. A woman's place is different.
You sound so cheerful and confident, I don't know why you can't attract Ms Right.

Maybe ask some of the women you know for feedback.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 04:07 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Perhaps, join a club or participate in activities where women & men enjoy being together & having fun.
This will give you a chance to meet some ladies. Festivals might be a good place for you to meet some ladies, or a place you can dance with ladies/women.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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I have my own house and money but I would still be the last person a girl would ever date. A friend of mine who has no money is having countless number of relationships despite very short lasting. I made him ask her ex girlfriend who he still keeps talking with. She refused.

I should be terrible, huh? I am the last person a girl would ever date. Seriously, I am 29 and I dont wanna keep living like that

What's more, I started to hate opposite sex since they treated me like [bleep] all my life.
And there it is.

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Old 01-02-2020, 04:36 PM
 
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Ah. Now you despise me.

What should I do? Terminate myself?

Looks like it is a comment that came from a person who is not male.
I totally understand where you’re coming from. Dating for a guy usually sucks in your 20s. It was true for me as well.

You have everything else going well for you, and that’s a good start. Don’t let relationship failure define you, because it doesn’t.
 
Old 01-02-2020, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Texas
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One source of reliable information would be your male friend's girl friend. Ask what about you are turn offs... be prepared for them being brutally honest. If you are willing to listen with an open mind and work on their suggestions you may be able to make changes that would lead to relationships.
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